4hfarms
Well-known member
I have no sympathy for the people that don't help themselves. One must be hungry to survive! I was born into a single parent home with too many mouths to feed. Moved out after school. Worked restaraunt jobs, for food and pay. Joined the Army for a decade. As recent as 15 years ago we lived in low income section 8. Just tired of being poor. Wife and I sat down and agreed this is not for us. Lead a beans and rice type of life for years. We now own a few farms.
One of the best investments was our first house we bought in 2005 while working low pay security jobs. All our friends went out to eat every night, drove new cars, partied all the time, vacations or even weekend in hotels on the beach. We put up with a bunch of teasing for years.... until they were forclosed on.
We sold our first home a couple years later for 70k more than purchase. We bought an auction home for $14k then We bought land and rented out pasture. When that was paid off we did it again. Rented out the mobile home and land, bought another when it was paid off. Have to admit we were lucky/unlucky when we were hit by a tornado last march and the insurance paid. We rebuilt on our farmland. We now live on a little over 100ac. We don't buy anything unless we have cash to pay for it. It takes discipline. We go without a lot of stuff, for sure.
No reason that one has to live day to day unless you are trying to accomplish something as we did. If you are unhappy, CHANGE IT! No one can make you better but you. Nothing happens immediately or over night. Took me 15 years, and the struggle is real, but I couldn't be happier.
One of the best investments was our first house we bought in 2005 while working low pay security jobs. All our friends went out to eat every night, drove new cars, partied all the time, vacations or even weekend in hotels on the beach. We put up with a bunch of teasing for years.... until they were forclosed on.
We sold our first home a couple years later for 70k more than purchase. We bought an auction home for $14k then We bought land and rented out pasture. When that was paid off we did it again. Rented out the mobile home and land, bought another when it was paid off. Have to admit we were lucky/unlucky when we were hit by a tornado last march and the insurance paid. We rebuilt on our farmland. We now live on a little over 100ac. We don't buy anything unless we have cash to pay for it. It takes discipline. We go without a lot of stuff, for sure.
No reason that one has to live day to day unless you are trying to accomplish something as we did. If you are unhappy, CHANGE IT! No one can make you better but you. Nothing happens immediately or over night. Took me 15 years, and the struggle is real, but I couldn't be happier.