Dave
Well-known member
Having met MM personally I would characterize her as a highly intelligent thoughtful young lady. I would seriously doubt that she asked the question to vandalize her opinion. Rather to ask the question in a forum that is dominated by older males to get a better understanding of the opposing opinion. There are a number of verses in Proverbs that tell that a wise man seeks the counsel of many. That is what she did. Where else can she get the opinions of this many older males who don't have a direct personal relationship?
My advise to her would be to remember the words of the Apostle Paul when he told husbands to love their wives and wives to respect their husbands (I am sure she has read the verse). This 2000 year old advise also came to the surface in a University of Washington study of successful long term marriages. Love and respect were the two common traits in 30-40 year marriages. So in this issue and all others be respectful of Mr. MM. Not meaning that she has to agree with him in all things. Just respect his opinions.
My advise to her would be to remember the words of the Apostle Paul when he told husbands to love their wives and wives to respect their husbands (I am sure she has read the verse). This 2000 year old advise also came to the surface in a University of Washington study of successful long term marriages. Love and respect were the two common traits in 30-40 year marriages. So in this issue and all others be respectful of Mr. MM. Not meaning that she has to agree with him in all things. Just respect his opinions.