Ryder
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It do sort of sound like that don't it?Dave":qwzc7y8y said:
I guess the inseperatables got seperated.
Son Assaulted At School!
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I guess the inseperatables got seperated.
GMN
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I luv herfrds":3kla49ki said:
When you are a MOM you are going to have that feeling to do anything for your son, and protect him anyway you can-its normal-everyone is different a Father is not going to feel the same way as a Mom does, because they just don't have that maternal instinct-just saying, don't second guess your actions, if some good came out of it, thats all that matters
Ryder
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I hear xactly what you are saying.pdfangus":3boy9pf4 said:
greybeard
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You make it sound like Dun went to sea in wooden ships back when Moby Dick was a minnow and Capt Ahab was a Seaman deuce?backhoeboogie":20z1c0dz said:
From a teachers perspective, the term bully is being tossed around freely. Sometimes life isn't easy. As for what I would do if I were you, see how the school handles it. If they do nothing, then file a police report. The report might only be "for the record". What are your son's friends doing? Why aren't they standing up for him? Something more is going on. I would probe a little deeper. As far as him standing up for himself, I would quickly forgive my son for his suspension when he returned the sucker punch when the guy is least expecting it. I know, not the best solution, but sometime he have to fight back.
Kathie in Thorp
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I'm going to chime in on this, because I work in the Juv. Court system -- that's my job. I understand your angst, ILH. Properly done, the SCHOOL should have called law enforcement, if this happened on school grounds. Absolutely, talk to the school people to see if they have made any sanctions against the other kid (suspension; time after school, etc.) if this was an unprovoked attack. And if not, if the school doesn't take it seriously, maybe you should pursue it with LE. If it was near the school grounds, I'd suggest the same thing. Or if anything happens on a school bus or a bus stop -- same.
But I also see so much stuff where kids are just being kids, where a simple push and shove turns into a law enforcement call. And that is a waste of L.E. resources! The school should address it, and all the parents should address it, and work together for a resolution or appropriate sanction.
And I'm not saying this has anything to do with your situation at all, ILH, but I get so sick and tired of seeing referrals to charge juveniles on domestic violence charges when the parents have set down few or NO rules, or don't enforce them (preferring quiet time or time-outs), then suddenly wake up to the problems, but don't have the parenting skills to make that kid stay off FB on the computer vs. homework, or make sure that kid gets out of bed and off to school on time every day and don't have the time to go to parent-teacher conferences, or have regular daily meals together. And then they wake up and try to enforce rules on a 14 year old with a wooden spoon, thinking THAT that will solve the problem. That 14 year old kid will swing back, nearly every time. I see reports every week where it's obvious the parents want the school or the cops to come in and take over the parenting chores.
But I also see so much stuff where kids are just being kids, where a simple push and shove turns into a law enforcement call. And that is a waste of L.E. resources! The school should address it, and all the parents should address it, and work together for a resolution or appropriate sanction.
And I'm not saying this has anything to do with your situation at all, ILH, but I get so sick and tired of seeing referrals to charge juveniles on domestic violence charges when the parents have set down few or NO rules, or don't enforce them (preferring quiet time or time-outs), then suddenly wake up to the problems, but don't have the parenting skills to make that kid stay off FB on the computer vs. homework, or make sure that kid gets out of bed and off to school on time every day and don't have the time to go to parent-teacher conferences, or have regular daily meals together. And then they wake up and try to enforce rules on a 14 year old with a wooden spoon, thinking THAT that will solve the problem. That 14 year old kid will swing back, nearly every time. I see reports every week where it's obvious the parents want the school or the cops to come in and take over the parenting chores.
I luv Herefords,
Have you ever looked up the percapata crime rate for your town? It sounds like violence is an underlieng issue where you live. Ours is higher than most large cities. Just wondered. People not living in an area like that don't really understand the ramifications.
Have you ever looked up the percapata crime rate for your town? It sounds like violence is an underlieng issue where you live. Ours is higher than most large cities. Just wondered. People not living in an area like that don't really understand the ramifications.
ga.prime
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I know- call a truce!
alisonb
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Not a truce, a duel....ga.prime":2cxnm3zg said:
Ryder
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I'm sort of for the duel thing.
But bush-whacking is better. More difficulties were settled that way than with duels. :nod: :nod: :nod:
But bush-whacking is better. More difficulties were settled that way than with duels. :nod: :nod: :nod:
ALACOWMAN
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said hey to a man at the store this past sunday, that just recently got out of the prison,.. he was being bullied pretty good by a another kid ,, till he had enough... one halloween night this bully hit him with a egg down by the river at a old mill where we hung out at time's and fished... he didnt know that boy had a shotgun and blew out everthing between his shoulders.....
ga.prime
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Break out the peace pipe! Throw on some Dark Side of the Moon. Side one.
greybeard
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Hmmm--it worked for Aaron Burr--not so much for Alexander Hamilton tho..but hey--if it was good enough for 2 founding fathers, it's good 'nuff for me.alisonb":1ue435v0 said:
(and of course, NO ONE, is seriously suggesting that the 2 kids shoot it out)
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While watching the wiZard of ozga.prime":250sdc6n said:
Kathie in Thorp
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What are you cooking this weekend, Hook?hooknline":37q9j8jy said:
jedstivers
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BrowniesKathie in Thorp":1b32q93x said:
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:lol:
First phase dove opens tomorrow so probably bacon wrapped dove. With a backup of steak for Sunday.
First phase dove opens tomorrow so probably bacon wrapped dove. With a backup of steak for Sunday.
john250
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And if the band you're in
Starts playin' different tunes
Starts playin' different tunes
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Floyd is on my pandora playlist. Probably listen to pandora 4-6 hours a day.
