SPH":1qjsjgul said:
Told him would rather send him to slaughter for that than the keep him active, he's a registered purebred that has proven to be a light birth weight bull and we've sold several bulls and heifers sired by him so he's worth more than slaughter price. Doesn't seem too unreasonable right?
I think you had a legit buyer and talked him out of buying from you.
You have a bull to sell, he needs to buy a bull...should have been a simple transaction, right?
I suspect you didn't listen to what he was saying, and are choosing to blame him for not buying.
...OR did you say...
I'd rather send him to slaughter than sell him to YOU.
Your tone and manner also influences perception between what you said and what he heard.
I don't begrudge anyone trying to negotiate their best price.
I calculate based on my best NET return options too.
But I try to put myself in his place and try to help him to find his own reasons to buy from me.
IF we can't reach an agreement and I really had no other option than sending him to slaughter, I would let him know when
and where, so that he could put in an extra bid or 3 and I would still be getting better than his true slaughter price.
It all depends on how you say things...
"When I'm with her, time stands still."
or
"She's got a face that could stop a clock."
Either way time is standing still...but one is offensive and the other romantic.
If you were being reasonable, then you wouldn't have to ask we who didn't hear the conversation if what you said
was unreasonable.
Don't feel too bad, a lot of farmers aren't very good at selling and even the best salesmen at one time or another have...
Been there done that. In sales, listening and problem solving are more effective than just telling someone something.