Jogeephus
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TB - you endured the brutal part and missed the good part. The latter is where the celebration of life really got going.
Stanford777":i6nd2bb9 said:We buried my mother close to a month ago, and it was the funeral I've ever really taken a major role in besides being a pallbearer at other family members services. We did everything at our church due to the funeral homes in our area having limited space, visitation and funeral were both held there to prevent the lines out the door in our sweltering July heat and humidity. But seeing how well the service went I know that's how I want mine handled as well. To be in the church u were raised in, in the community u lived in surrounded by the folks that u meant alot too. It was an incredible thing to realize how blessed our family was and the impact my mother had on other people's lives. Between 450 and 500 in attendance for the funeral, they said at least 2000 came thru the visitation. It was hard to be sad when u witnessed firsthand the outpouring of love for mom.
cowgirl8":kqjjqj1z said:My grandmother died in 2007. She prepared for her death after my grandfather died in 1984. She always thought she'd die before him, but when he died, she had her name put on the tombstone and the dates, 1913 19--, to be filled in upon her death..lol....she lived longer than she thought and it had to be fixed. For the last 20ish years of her life, she had all her funeral things packed in her closet with instructions on each thing. From what she'll wear, the makeup and a list of songs to be sung. I went with my mom to the funeral home to inspect her before the funeral....I dunno, I just always found this so bazaar... As a kid, we always made the cemetery rounds to put flowers on EVERYONE who ever died in our family. I wished I had paid more attention and listened, but I was a kid and wanted to do anything else rather than go to cemeteries.
My mom handed me a envelope and said to open it when I got home. It was a contract saying that her body goes to science. She said she wants no ceremony...My inlaws want the same, although my MIL wants us to go out to eat afterwards. I, when the time comes, just want to vanish, and if my kids want to do something, I guess they can get together and go out to eat...lol
backhoeboogie":w6w1d65l said:I still pull over when a funeral precession passes.
jedstivers":33879biv said:I been to a lot that the preacher gets carried away and basically tells us we're going to he77 just like the poor bast ard here in the box if we don't change our ways.
Was at one we got ask three times if we wanted to come foward and be saved. I thought we just needed the services for the departed since it was a funeral.
I've found that most times even on the interstate if the procession is visible that every one including truckers will generally pull over. Not just the direction it;s headed. They are usaully only one the interstate between 2 exits. Any where else around here everyone pulls over. When a funeral for a military person passes by, even walmart closes the doors while it passes. We've only had funerals for 2 soldiers so I don;t know if they would do it all the time.backhoeboogie":2l0vnb8z said:I still pull over when a funeral precession passes.
jedstivers":3kblr9ah said:I been to a lot that the preacher gets carried away and basically tells us we're going to he77 just like the poor bast ard here in the box if we don't change our ways.
Was at one we got ask three times if we wanted to come foward and be saved. I thought we just needed the services for the departed since it was a funeral.
jedstivers":nvcotmvv said:I been to a lot that the preacher gets carried away and basically tells us we're going to he77 just like the poor bast ard here in the box if we don't change our ways.
Was at one we got ask three times if we wanted to come foward and be saved. I thought we just needed the services for the departed since it was a funeral.
D2Cat":1p13gyqq said:And times the departed leaves plans with family on their desire for that "preaching" to be done, or not!
Ryder":1psydcrn said:At many funerals it seems that some people will go up, look down at the body all made up in the box and comment, "Don't he look natural".
Personally I have never seen a natural looking corpse unless they looked naturally dead.
herofan":h1e5p0lw said:Ryder":h1e5p0lw said:At many funerals it seems that some people will go up, look down at the body all made up in the box and comment, "Don't he look natural".
Personally I have never seen a natural looking corpse unless they looked naturally dead.
I must say, our local funeral home does a job that is beyond excellent. If it weren't for the fact that I had visited a few other funeral homes in my life, I wouldn't even know what people are talking about when they say "made up like a clown." Here, people look as though they are just lying there asleep. I can't speak beyond that, because I don't know any technicalities of the process, but they do a great job.