Part of the problem in the kids not having any respect is that the teachers also tell the kids that if their parents hit them, ie. what I call discipline, they should tell the teacher and then the parents are reported to social services. I know this for a fact, it happened to my sister years ago. She told her son that if he thought she was being too mean, that he could just go to the foster home, he would not be able to come back home to his house, he would not be allowed to live with his parents anymore. All for a good spanking for disobeying. She also told the social services person that if she hadn't grabbed him and spanked him for not listening, and disobeying her, he would have been hit by a car and then she would have been investigated for child neglect. So they couldn't have it both ways. It got nasty, and a lawyer got involved.... the school backed down when a witness to the incident came forward in my sisters behalf.
I DO NOT CONDONE BAD BEHAVIOR in kids. And I do think that a good crack on the backside is NOT ABUSE. But it has to start at home, and teachers should not have to be constantly disrupted by unmanageable kids. Again, I also agree that teachers are ADULTS and throwing a book at them, or grabbing them by the face,hair, and such is not acceptable.
Agree with Logar, I did not want my parents to hear if I was getting in trouble in school, or I would get it double at home. And my parents told me it was not only my RESPONSIBILITY to go to school, but it was also a PRIVILEDGE to be in that school, because they did not have to let me go there; and disrupting the class would mean that I might not be able to go and would not get an education and would be a dummy. That school was to help me be a better person, and get a better job and HAVE A BETTER LIFE. I had a choice......