So how is your post and others all that different than the criticism your are criticising?VanC":2fuh6vw2 said:Saw this thread last night and decided not to comment. Been doing a lot of that lately. It sure as heck doesn't mean I agree or disagree with anything. That's absurd. Sometimes I don't find something interesting enough to comment on, sometimes I just don't feel like commenting, and I sure as heck don't feel the need to build myself up by tearing others down like some of you do.
If nobody ever says anything doesn't the man go on thinking he has nice cattle. I applaud people that have the intestinal fortitude to say something. No I don't think everybody should get on the bandwagon telling the man what has already been said.
As for the steer, I'm with pdfangus, Northern Rancher and Alan on this one. If Poundsy thinks it's a nice steer, that's good enough for me. All he did was post some pictures of his animals, which he seems to be proud of, and which seem to be making him some money. Nothing wrong with that. He wasn't asking what the self appointed "phenotype experts" think about it, and he sure as heck didn't claim it as some sort of standard that people new to the cattle business should strive for. He may not have a bunch of highly sought after bulls for sale and fancy schmancy donor cows but he's proud of what he's got. Anyone that can't see that is the one with the problem, not him.
Poundsy's post should have created a bond between him and others that raise cattle. Instead, some of you chose to keep him at arms length because, after all, his cattle aren't as good as your cattle, are they? :roll: Shame on you.
If someone asks for advice, by all means give it as best you can. If not, would it kill some of you to just keep your mouths shut? On the other hand, if your one of those that thinks everything just HAS to be a teaching moment, and you just HAVE to bless us with some of your infinite wisdom, try doing it with a little kindness. Most people will be more receptive if they feel someone is truly trying to help than they would if they feel they are being looked down upon. And don't give me any of that "you need to have thick skin" crap. That's no excuse for the way some of you treat others. Some of you really need to get over yourselvs.
letting someone think their animal is nice when it aint, is worse.... they can get over rude... after a few informative post giving folks a clue to what he's doing really helped :cowboy:Dylan Biggs":1n8ibc34 said:No where in the post did I see a request for an opinion or a visual assessment of the quality of the cattle pictured in the post. If an owner of stock requests an opinion from someone then they need to be prepared for the following opinion.
Giving a negative assessment or opinion of someones stock when none is asked is rude.
Dylan Biggs
Got to agree with you. I took it the man just made a casual comment about the animal. He was not asking for a critique or an education.Dylan Biggs":17129sti said:No where in the post did I see a request for an opinion or a visual assessment of the quality of the cattle pictured in the post. If an owner of stock requests an opinion from someone then they need to be prepared for the following opinion.
Giving a negative assessment or opinion of someones stock when none is asked is rude.
Dylan Biggs
alacattleman":nt1l496d said:letting someone think their animal is nice when it aint, is worse.... they can get over rude... after a few informative post giving folks a clue to what he's doing really helped :cowboy:Dylan Biggs":nt1l496d said:No where in the post did I see a request for an opinion or a visual assessment of the quality of the cattle pictured in the post. If an owner of stock requests an opinion from someone then they need to be prepared for the following opinion.
Giving a negative assessment or opinion of someones stock when none is asked is rude.
Dylan Biggs
nope i assume this is a cattle board with cattlemen... not a touchy feely politicaly correct dont hurt my feelings siteDylan Biggs":1nkgci6s said:alacattleman":1nkgci6s said:letting someone think their animal is nice when it aint, is worse.... they can get over rude... after a few informative post giving folks a clue to what he's doing really helped :cowboy:Dylan Biggs":1nkgci6s said:No where in the post did I see a request for an opinion or a visual assessment of the quality of the cattle pictured in the post. If an owner of stock requests an opinion from someone then they need to be prepared for the following opinion.
Giving a negative assessment or opinion of someones stock when none is asked is rude.
Dylan Biggs
You assume that you have a monopoly on the definition of the term nice in regards to cattle. You also assume the use of the term nice was in reference to the animals type and conformation. Maybe the steer has a nice disposition, maybe to the poster the steer is a nice color, maybe nice horns?
It might also be nice of those who are keen to educate posters on the proper use of the term "nice" in regards to cattle to supply a wee bit more detail as to what made the use of the term "nice" inappropriate in their opinion.