rockridgecattle
Well-known member
okay i will say it off the bat. I am a terd.
I am deciding weather or not to go to my mother's "celebration of life" on Saturday. Not a memoral not a funeral.
She did not want me in her life these past years and i am invited to this celebration if her family agrees to let me come. I am one of 4 not invited unless the family okays it.
I am right now of the opinion why spend $600 to go to this thing. I get sketchy information at best, and got a face book invite to this thing from my brothers.
If i go i must adhere to her directives, however i do not know what they are except to stress or politics to the family and any mention of God is forbiden...i presume.
My step dad wonders if my brothers would feel abandoned if i do not go. However, I have not heard from them in over a week. When i asked about the details, the questions get ignored. I did ask about finances for this thing since my brothers are dead broke, and all i got was thinking on a potluck to cut costs down. Asked about the other stuff and told i was insensitive and aggressive.
I asked my husband if he would go if he were in my place but he says he does not know,since he never grew up like i did.
I keep checking west jets fares.
What would you do?
RR
I am deciding weather or not to go to my mother's "celebration of life" on Saturday. Not a memoral not a funeral.
She did not want me in her life these past years and i am invited to this celebration if her family agrees to let me come. I am one of 4 not invited unless the family okays it.
I am right now of the opinion why spend $600 to go to this thing. I get sketchy information at best, and got a face book invite to this thing from my brothers.
If i go i must adhere to her directives, however i do not know what they are except to stress or politics to the family and any mention of God is forbiden...i presume.
My step dad wonders if my brothers would feel abandoned if i do not go. However, I have not heard from them in over a week. When i asked about the details, the questions get ignored. I did ask about finances for this thing since my brothers are dead broke, and all i got was thinking on a potluck to cut costs down. Asked about the other stuff and told i was insensitive and aggressive.
I asked my husband if he would go if he were in my place but he says he does not know,since he never grew up like i did.
I keep checking west jets fares.
What would you do?
RR