I got through the first two pages...
I've got some thought here so please bare with me...
1. While I agree with your thought on the same sex being biblically wrong, I see something worse...wait please. In our culture, churched or unchurched, sexual integrity has hit the skids. 15-16 year olds...what the heck are they doing groping each other...be it opposite sex or same sex? IMO the problem here 1st is sexual integrity and purity. It's led to this downward spiral of anything goes.
2. While what they were doing was wrong, both in same sex and in sexual integrity, forgive me...who are we to judge? We are sinners. While I can not point out the passage in the bible, it talks of reserving our discipline, or "passing judgement" for those claiming to be walking with Christ, in His Spirit...not the ones who do not know any better. For the ones who do not know the laws, how can they abide by them. For those who don't know it's sin, how can they be judged?...by us?
(Edit. We have to remember, probably 80% of this generation is unchurched! or water down gospeled. Most are 2nd and 3rd generation removed from corporate worship and the Bible. Doesn't make what was seen right)
I'm not trying to preach a feel good thing here. What I am trying to say is, how can we have anger towards those who don't know? Our anger should burn for those who profess to be a child of the most high God and acts out in sexual perversion, including adultery and pornography, gossip, slander, etc. While the unrepentant person is lost in their sin, we need to show them love. "They do not know what they do"
Make no mistake, I am not agreeing with their actions, biblically it's wrong, but let's save the anger for those who claim to talk the walk. I'm not saying make the church conform to the world, but open our hearts to the hurting, to the broken.
Casting Crowns actually wrote a song about this. These lyrics always stop me in my tracks and they express what I am trying to say so much better than I can.
http://youtu.be/BG7CB3xsTS8
Jesus, friend of sinners
We have strayed so far away
We cut down people in Your name
But the sword was never ours to swing
Jesus, friend of sinners
The truth's become so hard to see
The world is on their way to You
But they're tripping over me
Always looking around but never looking up
I'm so double minded
A plank-eyed saint with dirty hands
And a heart divided
Oh Jesus, friend of sinners
Open our eyes to the world
At the end our pointing fingers
Let our hearts be led by mercy
Help us reach with open hearts and open doors
Oh Jesus, friend of sinners
Break our hearts for what breaks Yours
Jesus, friend of sinners
The One whose writing in the sand
Made the righteous turn away
And the stones fall from their hands
Help us to remember
We are all the least of these
Let the memory of Your mercy
Bring Your people to their knees
Nobody knows what we're for
Only what we're against
When we judge the wounded
What if we put down our signs
Crossed over the lines
And loved like You did
You love every lost cause
You reach for the outcast
For the leper and the lame
They're the reason that You came
Lord, I was that lost cause
And I was the outcast
But You died for sinners just like me
A grateful leper at Your feet
'Cause You are good
You are good
And Your love endures forever
And I was the lost cause
And I was the outcast
You died for sinners just like