Ojp6":2cnqmnmv said:Bigfoot":2cnqmnmv said:Can not believe I'm posting this. But, maybe I should. I have a family member (female 20 years old). I suspicion she is depressed. Mental illness/depression/ and suicide are actually quit common in her mothers family. I've thought about her 100 times in the last couple of days. Due to her quit nature, and my boisterous nature, we're not very close. She still lives at home, how in the world do you approach something like that? I believe that she would tell her parents if she was in very bad shape. I also believe they would see the signs. The signs are fairly obvious to me though (if I'm not imagining them). She is plastering social media, with how happy and blessed that she is. She may be that happy, and I hope she is. My gut tells me other wise. A sprinklin of our users probably have some training on stuff like this. Do people sometimes overly portray themselves as happy, when they are depressed.
http://www.espn.com/espn/feature/st...ty-pennsylvania-runner-showed-only-part-story
I thought this article sounded a lot like what you are talking about as far as masking depression while showing themselves to be happy on social media. I read this a while back and felt I learned something from it.
Glad you posted that.
My wife and I discussed it at length this afternoon. She said 20 was a difficult age for people. Wasn't for me. Maybe that's why I don't understand.
I can see how a young lady could get tricked by all the positive things people post. Try to match it, and end up feeling even worse.
Nobodies life is perfect. I guess we just get to where we linger on the good, and ignore the bad. Maybe some people do just the opposite.