Bright Raven":pjxbm2ic said:
Darryl, I am going to aggravate you a little more on this emasculation theory. I hope others know like you do that this is just banter but I hope it makes us think.
I think this "emasculation theory" is crap. You are blaming society for emasculating males! A real man if there is such a term, is a man by only his standards - not societies standards. You cannot be emasculated unless you want to be emasculated. There is a hypocrisy here. I often read posts that whin about the "victim" mentality, yet here you are and I have read others, whining about men being emasculated. Isn't that nothing more that complaining that you are a victim?
Your out of touch Ron, Men in general are controlled by 2 things Food and (kitty cats) , The owner of said kitty cat tends to make the rules. Look at Our mothers and grand mothers in how they Revered the Head of household. Fast forward 30 years and How many men are not the primary bread winner , look at the number of men that stay at home and take care of the kids , turn on lifetime any day of the week and there is a sappy love story where the man is the perfect match. all of this plays a role in society and how women view it. The broken family is also part of this equation where women have had to become the mom and dad in most households so they are more assertive and make decisions in a masculine way. Ask any below 30 female and she will tell you she does not need a man . todays man is a wimp , cant change his oil, wife controls the check book because he didn't value his role as being the protector and bread winner. I don't feel sorry for the victims because they let it happen. one more thing , Look at the millennial men wearing beards and wearing flannel , The younger women told them that's what appeals to them in men , These men couldn't hardly pick up an axe. Also look at men in there 40 and 50's and im sure you have heard the term "married up" . The trend for these sensible beautiful women let go of the stereotypical pretty boy dream and decided they were more comfortable and safer with a burly man and a provider and protector that have not been emasculated. I'm pretty sure there is even a song about city girls wanting country boys the sad part is there is not enough of these real men around to right the ship.