Oh Boy, I have to saying something here. I live in southern Tennesse. At any givin morning I might be driving a tractor to feed hay, move hayrings, set t-posts, titter hay, rake hay, mow fields(bush hog), etc. I use a tractor ALL the time. I also build fence, work ( vaccs, fly control, deworm, separate, etc.) my cattle (by myself) many times, kill critters (feed stealing skunks, opossiums and racoons), feed, water and gather eggs from the chickens, vaccs, deworm, and do hoof care on my horses, clean stalls, put fresh hay and water in the stalls. Do a load of laundry and dishes. Put them away and make DARN sure that if you walk into my house it is CLEAN! All this BEFORE I "go to work" by noon driving my Dodge, manual, 3500 4 x4 truck using my CDL, motorcycle and standard drivers licence that sits in my purse beside my conceal and carry handgun permit. My days are LONG...But I am proud to be a farming wife to my husband. I am 39 yrs old, 5'6" tall and weigh 152lbs and can do the work of men twice my size. I hate to go to the mall and firmly believe money is better spent on cattle than a diamond ring! But if you walk into our Automotive Repair Shop you would think I was the same as the city ladies/women that live on the "lots" in the fance neighborhoods....well except for my fingernails...they are short and not polished.
My reward is not in the material things I can gain but the life I am sharing with my husband. The blood, sweat and tears we shed building our character and our heritage to our children. So, tell your friend that YES we drive tractors and a heck of more if needed to get the job done!