TexasBred
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BARNSCOOP":ochkv5ul said:Well,
He is the man of the house and he LOVES big machinery so we are called to assigning tractors....I get the smaller of the two. But when he is at work I sneak and use his tractor sometimes. I am his helper not his boss....that would be GOD. So, I wait for him to teach me something new to do and then do it as best I can. You can get alot done when you work as a team but we can tell when we have had enough work and not enough rest cause the hammers start flyin over the stupid stuff.
I think in general women as a whole (Northern and Southern) don't do alot of farm work because they don't like it. They are busy with careers and office jobs. Somebody somewhere has taught a generation of women that staying home with your children, cooking for your family and being your husbands wife wasn't good enough. You have to have an outside career to have an identity and be fulfilled. If you don't do it there way ..well your just uneducated and shameful.
I'll say it LOUD. One of the most important things a woman will ever do is to raise her children in a loving home where they see her devotion to them and there father. What ever form that comes in.
My wife would be more than willing to drive a tractor and did one time when I was hospitalized. She put out hay for all the cows for almost a week, but that's it!!!!! Her one job is to breed the cattle. The rest of the jobs or problems are mine and I refuse to let her get out there and get hurt trying to help. She does keep the cattle records and pays bills but otherwise she's free to go/come/do whatever she wants.