Ouachita
Well-known member
I think I understand what SOB is saying.I have two adopted siblings. Adoption has its issues... but what are the alternatives?
I've never raised up adopted kids, but I'm adopted and I've observed a lot of families that have adopted. I think birth parents have an advantage for obvious reasons, and some not so obvious reasons.
It can go south in a hurry. It's a tough gig and I applaud those who can make it work.