Don't you think, If our government would stop sending our jobs to foreign countries there would be enough good paying jobs for our citizens so that dad could go to work and mom could stay home and raise their children.
Lammie":3e0bvdpz said:There are no easy answers. Yes, there are good folks in my community. But you have to get out and look for that. They aren't going to beat down your door.
BHB, I know you did your best. Stuff happens, and you are right, I am scared to death that my son is hundreds of miles away from my influence on his life. You just never know.
I would have loved to have stayed home and baked bread all day, but that was not my reality. Nor is it the reality of many women these days. We all do what we have to do. Some of the worst mothers I have ever seen stay at home. I have a student like that now. His mother stays at home using crank. She's dirty. She smells and she's a poor example for her son. But by golly! She's a stay at home mom!
hrbelgians":tabr0ttg said:Some might hammer me for this, however my weee little opinion is....
It all started when women turned into working men away from home.
Lammie":1szylmt2 said:Working outside the home made me a better mother. It made my sons stronger, more independent and more confident. I had them in a good day care situation at a nationally accredited center, and I am convinced that the early childhood learning they received, the trips they took, the resources at the disposal of their teachers, were far better for them than if they had stayed home with me and watched me clean house.
Lammie":30zaa2d9 said:The one thing I think that every parent should do no matter what is to read to their children. I read with my kids every day. First story books and then chapter books. It was a way we could get together and be close to one another. It also made them both avid readers.