callmefence":1tqmvq9f said:
The juice..complaining to admin. about some imaginary expense to your experience. and getting your way.
the squeeze... forcing others who haven't complained to sit like mice during their experience. Because you think it should be that way.
Talk about not considering others.
Its all about perspective isnt it? Thats one of my favorite aspects of CT, getting different perspectives.
Now, in response to your post. Im sure it wasnt an imaginary expense to any parent who was trying to record or listen for their childs name called at graduation, but that name was drowned out by the noise and behaviors of those ththaththat preceded them on the stage. Im sure that parent or graduate may have felt robbed of their moment. Its always a decision and there are always consequences. Some consider the greater good of others and some simply consider what they want.
Im not unsympathetic. I have graduated 5 of mine at the local school. Some of the 5 have given speeches as valedictorian, salutatorian and class presidents. Believe me, theres a strong desire to applaud when they head for the microphone or to get their diploma, but that isnt the time or place. Theres a time, once the ceremony is complete, when everyone can have their special moment. Just my perspective.
Edit to add: no one is being forced. Admin makes a request. Each man or woman has to make decision to oblige or not.
Would you go into a library and raise a ruckus? Probably not. Why because the expectation is to be considerate of others. School admin in some locations request the same consideration at graduations for the same reasons. No one is forced to oblige. Merely pointing out the potential effects of ones decisions on others. No one is robbing you of your opportunity to cheer. Theres a place in the ceremony specifically for that.