First calf heifer calved last week and refuses to take up with calf. When calving she never got up to smell or lick the ground. Out popped calf and mother walked away refusing to bond. Put heifer and calf into small pen. She let calf suck reluctantly. Never licked calf,eventhough I put some of the slime in her mouth.Things have not improved and cow will only let calf suck when she gets meal. Once finished calf is kicked like a rag doll. What bonding suggestion do you have??