No, I wasn't run off (though I rarely visit this site anymore).
Yes, those were hard words to hear, but I'm a big boy and am not above taking advice, that's why I posted on here.
Yes, I jumped the gun and put her down, the vet said she may have been saveable, I regret that and it still bothers me on several levels. I think I needed a little hindsight before posting a response, that's why I deleted my post, it wasn't anything bad by any means, just felt awful even commenting on it. I hate screwing up.
Lastly, in no way did I leave her out there for a day knowing she was in trouble.
I noticed on New Years Eve she had started calving, she was older and I had never had any trouble from any of my heifers, let alone a cow so we left and went to a friends family party and stayed well past midnight. When I saw her the next morning she was suffering pretty bad, bleeding out of a rectal prolapse I think it's called, which were delivered, but calf was not. This was not something I expected (no legs hanging out, no partially delivered calf I could pull on) and I waited for advice as long as I could but not long enough obviously. I will be prepared next time for trouble. This was a pretty old cow which I had trouble with from the get go, very cagey, very hard to load, hard to get in the chute, should have never bought her but that's another story. A hard lesson, but a lesson learned all the way around.
Thanks to all who tried to help.