I can tell you from experience there are a lot of good people doing internet dating. But we all should know from our experience here that some people may be less than truthful. It is pretty easy to make yourself appear to be different than you really are. One of my best ones was a gal who described herself as "average". After a few email exchanges we arranged to meet for coffee. I am 6' 1" and 240. She had at least two inches and 40 pounds on me. She was "average"? Average for what? College football line men? But I did meet a number of good ladies. Just no attraction on my part. They would be great neighbors but not someone I wanted to be in a relationship with. A person just has to sort through a lot of people to find someone who is right. In Cross-7 case, he just needs to get on friend finder. He will find what he is looking for there.