Yes, we upfront try to make them aware of what the cost will be within an estimated range. Even so we've still had a few be surprised, but we haven't lost out yet. So far family and family friends are the only ones we've had back out.
It is a lot of money, but cheaper in the long run. We definitely would not be buying from the grocery as much meat as we eat from our beef.
My father was born in 1925, and his parents in 1894, and 1903, I came along late in my parents life, but 3 of my grandparents were living still. I definitely had a different upbringing than most of my contemporary peers.