Lammie":78grx2c3 said:
There are school around here where every girl, and boy, I guess, gets to be a cheerleader if she/he wants. Thirty people to a squad!
I am not a bit suprised because it happens all the time. Usually, the school will just put the extra girl on the squad to avoid all the fuss. At the high school where I work, the really popular girls don't want to do that stuff anymore.
That is what is happening to our kids. We have raised them to expect trophies for showing up. We have taught them that the minimal effort deserves praise, and everyone makes the team so no one's feelings get hurt. I have seen it a lot of kids raised by my generation. I have tried not to be like that, but every time either of my sons played a sport when they were, say, under 12, they came away with a trophy even if they didn't win a game all season!
.
I understand what you are saying, but I feel especially with the younger kids it is more important to show them that they are part of the team, they gave it thier best, played their hardest, and even though they might not have won one single game, they still are winners for trying. Every kid needs to feel like their efforts were recognized, especially at these young ages, for self esteem issues and confidence builders.
With regards to the cheerleading thing, what would be the big deal to have more than 8 on a team, isn't it supposed to be celebrating school spirit that matters, I think they put way too much emphasis on how the girls look and act, rather than the purpose for what they are there for.
GMN