Thank you for sharing. Your experience is more help than i can explain. And a simple thank you doesn't begin to express my gratitude for your helping me to understand this better.
I don't think anyone can fully understand how serious of an issue menopause is until it is happening to them.
And because the severity of it can differ so much from one individual to the next. A person who has went through it with little or no problems which from what i understand is very rare. Can paint a very different picture of what it is like.
I can tell you it is VERY serious. It can change life's for the worst. It's something that every adult regardless of sex should be knowledgeable of.
The reason i say this is. Most probably over 90 %, probably a bigger percentage than that is going to go through it. It's part of life's cycle. Just like dieing. There's no getting around it.
But with menopause. Alot of women and most if not all men were never taught anything about it. Don't realize most of the the time at the beginning or on come of it that is what is happening. The woman herself doesn't know what is happening or what kind of hell she is entering into.
Most men like myself don't have a clue for the longest that something is wrong, something is troubling the wife. Until it starts getting more and more obvious.
When the mood swings start in stead of being considerate and understanding. Most men snap back, they don't realize there is alot of things going on both physically and mentally with their wife's, marking their life's hell for them. On top of that the one person they should be able to turn to the most for help is their husband. But instead of getting help and support from their husband. It ends up in arguments, feelings hurt etc... Simply because one doesn't understand or have a clue what is happening with the other.
Miss, I want to take my hat off to you for shedding some light on this for me. You sound like a very strong lady and alot of women would not have even taken the time to talk about what you have experienced.
Speaking for myself and I am sure there are alot of other men who have read your comments would say thank you for being candid, helping me understand more about what i am dealing with. And how i can help my wife more.