That makes sense, as with anything else it all depends on how you deal with things. How your body reacts, copes, ect. How you and your spouse work through things talk about it or don't hide from it and hope it disappears. Plus I could see women that have more stress being worse going through menopause. All depends on your life and what your dealing with at the time as well. Do you think menopause leads to some divorce or was just the straw that breaks the camels back? (Not you but in general ya'll) I'd hate to think I was married 100 years and menopause lead to divorce. That's horrible and sad.
When started researching it. Which was only a few days ago. I came across 3 or 4 articles that were titled something along the lines of " Men be scared of menopause be real scared ! "
When i got to reading thoes articles. Some of the things that the article was referring to being scared of was what can happen. Like divorce, losing your career, basicly you can lose everything.
Don't misunderstand what i am saying. The material things i have accumulated like our home, farm, careers, retirements are all important to me. But my wife is way more important to me than all of thoes things combined.
We are both close to being able to retire and enjoy life and what it has taken us a big part of our life to get. Once it is gone neither one of us will get thoes things back. I am 60 years old, not bed bound, but not physically able to do things i once could. Same with my wife.
It's alot like a drug attic. Once someone becomes an attic most of the time they lose everything, spouse, family, friends, material things like home's, they give it all up to get their fix.
Except menopause is something you don't have a choice in. A drug attic becomes an attic because they started doing drugs and developed a dependance for the drug.
Menopause isn't something you can avoid. Like dieing or getting old. You don't have a choice in none of it.
I am guessing there are more people who don't realize how detrimental menopause can be than people that do know.
And because the severity of how bad it can affect one person from another. Thoes that got through it easier than someone who suffered through it for 20 years. Will have an entirely different out look on it.
But the answer to your question it can result in divorce, losing everything you have worked you entire life to build. Life as you know it can end because of it.