TexasBred":3fegykg8 said:
CB with all due respect I'm wondering why you and the Misses are all involved in this instead of her mom and dad? I can understand it being a family decision but seldom is it an "extended family decision". My grandkids would ask me to mind my own business. I understand it's a great opportunity but it ain't the end of the world.
Her mom and dad are divorced. Her mom is a nut, I have wanted to knock her in the head with a pine knot since my son brought her home 20 years ago. She has came to Paw and Granny for everything else especially Granny. Now Granny has put her foot down you can put your hand on the good book, carve it in stone or write in blood she ain't backing up. Now she want's our approval and is not getting it. I am your Dad or Grandpaw until they put that first shovel of dirt over me and your getting my opinion like it or not as long as I am the patriach of this family. When my dad and mom were alive we all sat down and discussed important famly matter's and there opiion's carred more weight than anybody else in the room. We have had some down right tusseles but when we walk out of a room we have always been on the same page.
No one is trying to pick her mate or telling her where to go to school, we have told her if she want's to be near him go A&M Commerce in Dallas. I have no problem with here being a stay at home mom get your education before you start having kid's. When our daughter got engaged and married wanted to know if I would continue to pay for college. I said no problem. She has a primary and secondary teaching certificate and is a stay at home mom. That is something no one can ever take away.