I am so sorry to hear that about Slick as I know those around him must miss him a lot. He is a good man. But as I have grown older, I see that we pass on, from this life to the next phase. When we lose a friend or a loved one, they are not in our past, but in our future. We lose this earthly body, but we are still very much alive, just not here. And it does not keep us from missing them, but to know they just went before us; for they are now where we all long to be. Heaven is a place of love and beauty and they do not want to come back, but they wait for us to join them. To lose a child or a spouse can be crippling, as our brains go through a major chemistry change as it is hard to accept, as nothing can make sense for a while. Some people go for years trying to make sense of it. But after we can recover, and regain mental strength, we too will be there with them and know that it is part of our journey. All is Good!! This is just how I see our journey that is set before us.