I had horses for many years. Did the show scene..... Now I do not own a horse. There are a hand full of people out there that are genuine and kind, but they are few and far between. Now that I can look back, here is how I feel about a lot of horse people. Horse people have a disease. They cannot have a conversation without talking about their horse. If you try to start a conversation about something else, they will change it. They will spend their last dollar on horse gear and trucks and trailers to have that look when they pull in on the lot. Visual stimulation is the key. They will have the biggest dually and matching aluminum trailer with the living quarters, etc..... but go to their house, and you will see that they have much more money in their ride then they invested to maintain the upkeep of the house or house trailer. Get two horse people together talking, and they cannot hear what the other is saying for thinking about what they can say to out-do the other when they can get a word in edgewise. They will walk around you for a long time and act like you are invisible so that you will get the feel of where they are on the social ladder of the horse circle. Then when you are seen talking to someone "big" in the circle, then they will consider your presence. I do not miss the superfical BS that goes along with the horse scene.