flaboy-":35y263sv said:Now I am wondering if I screwed up in the last few minutes of round penning him. HE was doing so bad at the end that I would run him half a lap and turn him, run him half a lap and turn him. I did this maybe six or seven times. Then I got him to stop, approached him, praised him, lead him out. I never had to actually touch him or the filly with the rope and never did.
Where did I go wrong the final portion Sunday? Like I said he was picture perfect until the filly got out of site.
You may have pushed his mind too much by putting so much pressure on him in the half laps and turns. He sounds like he's bonding with the filly and loses his attention when she is gone. I have been guilty of doing the half lap thing too, but it sets me back a few days when I get frustrated. IMO and what I do now is when things start going bad I just round pen them at a canter (if they are warmed up) one direction until I get a good solid lick or chew and the ear is on me. If I want them to stop or change gears and don't get it we (he) runs some more. When they are being butts it might take a while. But the idea is to get the horse to realize that his focus needs to be on you and he needs to do what he ask you to. By making him go in a circle he may be fearful at first but well figure out that all he is doing is going in a circle and not being forced to flee in multiple directions to get away from you. You may try penning each horse out of sight of each other while you are working them, may take an extra day or two to work the kinks out but they will get over it and will have all their attention on you. Always end on a positive note, even if during the session all you did was go back three steps and you get him to do something good and right... great place to quit for the day.
I really screwed the realationship between my wifes TB and myself by being too hard on him a few times. It is still taking along time to get his trust back (months) but we are pretty close now... I still hate the &#^#&$ horse! I don't think you have this problem just going to take a few days to get back to the point you where at, especially if you take the other horse out of sight, but I think that will help in your training.
Good luck,
Alan