Brute 23":94z7kc46 said:
We were involved in Shotgun for 10 years or so thru 4H. It burned my whole family out. The stupidity of the parents will wear you out. It got worse as the years went by. Can't imagine it now.
The parents and the leaders. In my area the only 4h club with any sense is the ox teamster club. Those kids and the leaders know what it's all about, and do some amazing things. All the others have been taken over by stupid ex-suburbanite mommies who think that all animals must treated like puppies and kitties. They don't know a thing about what they're doing, and if you try to teach them the facts they don't want to hear it, because it isn't all giggles and happiness. Their main concern is whether a breed or an individual animal is "friendly". I could go on and on, but the depths of their emotional retardation and ignorance are as profound as that of any city folks. I used to judge a few of the local 4h shows, and have donated a lot of birds to them. No more, I just can't stomach the ignorance. Every child gets a ribbon just for showing up. You can't tell one that he has a better animal than another. The kids who do work hard get no extra reward or recognition than those who don't do a thing except show up for the exciting fair. The leaders preach all of that BS about teaching responsibility, etc, but they practice exactly the opposite.
My children are encouraged to show in the open classes, against the real competition. Yes they get beat a lot especially when first starting out, but they learn some valuable lessons that the pathetic 4h leaders will never teach. When they have stuck with it my children have earned the respect and admiration of some of their adult competitors, who sometimes take them under their wing and teach them so much more than the poor 4h kids will ever be exposed to. My kids end up with the ribbons and the smiles too, eventually, and their victories are not hollow and meaningless. I can't even put into words how disgusted I am with many of the 4h leaders and their mentality.