bball said:Ahhhhh, stress, the silent killer! I try to walk a minimum of 30 minutes daily. No cell, music or distractions. I focus on the the scenery so my mind doesnt drift into 'serious' concerns. Journaling is an excellent stress reliever and leaves behind something of interest for your heirs (should you choose to share it). Plenty of water and quality sleep are very important for your mind and body to rest and recover. Prayer or meditation.
It's a real discipline, but learning to accept what you have the power to impact and accepting the things you can not impact is vital to stress relief. Good luck.
i found it less stressful, too tackle one thing at a time...turn that worrying into accomplishments..farming can seem to get overwhelming at times.like everything needs to be done at once ...but you can get more accomplished and do better work,after one thing is done and completed. then concentrate on to the next obstacle....WestTNguy said:Been a rough week.
How do y’all deal with stress and anxiety? Seems to get better each year, but damnit boy if I ain’t worrying about something, then I feel off. I know there are some old timers on here with some good experience....
Bigfoot said:Read up on ruminating thoughts. It’s closely tied to ocd. Control the thoughts, and the stress disappears.
Dave said:I made the very conscious decision to not stress over things. It took some mind training on my part. Just do the best I can but not stress about the out come. If I do the best I can, well I did what I can do. Stressing about it won't change the out come one bit.
herofan said:Someone was recently talking about things they enjoyed in life, and it got me to thinking. The things I enjoy most in life once a comfortable living has been met is peace, being as stress free as possible, living life without seeming like I’m in an rush all the time, spending time with family stress free, and such things as that. I love those things much more than a new automobile, fancy house, or any other material things I could own, so why bust my butt trying to always have more stuff when that’s not what I equate with happiness in the first place?
bball said:herofan said:Someone was recently talking about things they enjoyed in life, and it got me to thinking. The things I enjoy most in life once a comfortable living has been met is peace, being as stress free as possible, living life without seeming like I’m in an rush all the time, spending time with family stress free, and such things as that. I love those things much more than a new automobile, fancy house, or any other material things I could own, so why bust my butt trying to always have more stuff when that’s not what I equate with happiness in the first place?
You summed up my philosophy pretty well. Administration has approached me 5 times over the last 16 months for promotion. I respectfully decline each time. The added income would not justify the added stress, aggravation and time away from the people and things I truly enjoy.
It's not just how we equate happiness, but also success. Success is far more than just financial imho.
Caustic Burno said:bball said:herofan said:Someone was recently talking about things they enjoyed in life, and it got me to thinking. The things I enjoy most in life once a comfortable living has been met is peace, being as stress free as possible, living life without seeming like I’m in an rush all the time, spending time with family stress free, and such things as that. I love those things much more than a new automobile, fancy house, or any other material things I could own, so why bust my butt trying to always have more stuff when that’s not what I equate with happiness in the first place?
You summed up my philosophy pretty well. Administration has approached me 5 times over the last 16 months for promotion. I respectfully decline each time. The added income would not justify the added stress, aggravation and time away from the people and things I truly enjoy.
It's not just how we equate happiness, but also success. Success is far more than just financial imho.
Satisfaction is hard to place a price on.
Company did the same thing with me.
I was satisfied, not wanting to move to other locations around the country.
Lifestyle is a huge influencing factor as well, some people are trying to stay ahead of the Jones’s others stuffing the mattresses.