cross_7":39tch2jv said:
i've looked back at some of the "safe choices" i've made over the years and have thought what if i had taken a chance.
now i'm thinking when i turn 65 and retire, am i going kick myself for not taking a chance and now it's too late.
i've always based my decisions on security, whether is was for fun or financial i always wanted to be safe.
i've now learned there is no safety in anything.
all it would take for a lot a people would be a job loss or say health issue's even with good insurance the loss of your paycheck for a few weeks or months would sink a lot of people.
i've never heard anyone on their death bed say "i wish i had worked harder and had less fun".
heck i my may quit my job and become a professional team roper-bass fisherman-bowhunter extraordinaire and part time cow nurse. :cowboy:
I was a working stiff for 39 years in a shipyard and thought the grass was greener somewhere else but not enough to try it. When retirement came in '04 I got cold feet because there was no turning back once I retired. I did retire at 60 with 39 years and I have no regrets. I am blessed with good health, a good wife, two good kids and two GK's. I always lived close to the bone and still do. I can say that I didn't give my kids the best, just what I wanted them to have. I believe I owed my kids personal care and protection, teach them who Jesus is and take them to church, a good education, and all the love a daddy has. We live in MS, the fattest most ignorant state in the USA.
Both my kids went to graduate school. My sons starting salary was more than my retired salary. He puts people to sleep for heart surgery. Don't let anybody tell you that you can't get an education in MS.
After three score and seven years, God said that man has three score and ten, I think time is very important to me. I got a house paid for, three boats, about twenty assorted guns, two TW horses, two super squirrel dogs ten beautiful black angus cows, F250 super duty but I have no idea how much time I have. Hardware is fun but not important.
What you do with your life is your business. It helps to have a good head, I wasn't overly blessed there, remember John Wayne said," life's tough,if you're dumb it's tougher."
Can you make a living ranching? Yes indeed; however, I think ranching would be more fun when you don't have to make a living.
When the kids came along it was about providing the best for them. That is a definition that is different for every man.