A change of plans...

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Shantilly

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I had not really planned on taking a trip this time of year, and yet I found myself packing rather hurriedly.
This trip was going to be unpleasant and I knew in advance that no real good would come of it.
I'm talking about my annual "Guilt Trip."
I got tickets to fly there on "WISHIHAD" airlines. It was an extremely short flight.
I got my luggage, which I could not check. I chose to carry it myself all the way. It was weighted down with a thousand memories of what might have been.
No one greeted me as I entered the terminal to the Regret City International Airport. I say international because people from all over the world come to this dismal town.
As I checked into the Last Resort Hotel, I noticed that they would be hosting the year's most important event, the Annual Pity Party.
I wasn't going to miss that great social occasion. Many of the towns leading citizens would be there.
First, there would be the Done family, you know, Should Have, Would Have and Could Have.
Then came the I Had family.
You probably know ol' Wish and his clan.
Of course, the Opportunities would be present, Missed and Lost.
The biggest family would be the Yesterday's. There are far too many of them to count, but each one would have a very sad story to share.
Then Shattered Dreams would surely make and appearance.
And It's Their Fault would regale us with stories (excuses) about how things had failed in his life, and each story would be loudly applauded by Don't Blame Me and I Couldn't Help It.
Well, to make a long story short, I went to this depressing party knowing that there would be no real benefit in doing so. And, as usual, I became very depressed.
But as I thought about all of the stories of failures brought back from the past, it occurred to me that all of this trip and subsequent "pity party" could be cancelled by ME!
I started to truly realize that I did not have to be there. I didn't have to be depressed.
One thing kept going through my mind, I can't change yesterday, but I do have the power to make today a wonderful day.
I can be happy, joyous, fulfilled, encouraged, as well as encouraging. Knowing this, I left the City of Regret immediately and left no forwarding address.
Am I sorry for mistakes I've made in the past? YES! But there is no physical way to undo them.
So, if you're planning a trip back to the City of Regret, please cancel all your reservations now. Instead, take a trip to a place called, Starting Again.
I liked it so much that I have now taken up permanent residence there. My neighbors, the I Forgive Myselfs and the New Starts are so very helpful.
By the way, you don't have to carry around heavy luggage, because the load is lifted from your shoulders upon arrival.
Good luck in finding this great town. If you can find it — it's in your own heart — please look me up.
I live on ICANDOIT street.
"I can't change yesterday, but I do have the power to make today a wonderful day."
pfloyd121
19/12/2013
i saw this on another forum i haunt.. and loved it ..thought i would share :)
 
i posted this because i was having a VERY hard time in my life and being a single mom with no local friends for support i was suicidal ... so much so i had planned the when where and how to my demise... a stranger who wouldnt allow me to be totally alone kept emailing me and didnt let me give up on life... sad when I look around at all the people i know online and in person that a total stranger was the only one their for me in my darkest hour.. sorry i am not a strong believer in prayer or God at this moment... i know He exists ...but as far as I'm concerned i think i am His biggest joke ... I truly hope that those that read this got something good from it.. those that didn't glad to see your head is on straight and you have strong support in your life..
 
Shantilly....I really like that 1st post! I know a couple of people who should ditch the luggage and join you in your new "neighborhood".

As for the second post, not easy to share the rock-bottom times of your life. Lots of people hit bottom and, fortunately, head back up and not under. Once you've been at the bottom, there's nowhere else to go but up.

Keep on pluggin' away.

Katherine
 
shantilly, I thought you wrote the first post since you speak of being a writer. From what you have written on different posts on here, I thought it was your life and you finally found a way to cut the chains. Maybe it is your life, you just don't know it yet. You seem like a very strong person and you will have a happy life moving forward. As the story goes, don't buy that ticket back, buy the one that goes forward!
 
Hard rain doesn't last. ;-) That's hard to remember when you're soaking wet and ready to drown but once you get warm and dry and look back at being wet and drowning you'll see what a short part of a beautiful life that storm was.
 
Well girl that's a little deep thinking for me. Get a Bible and read some, skip around you'll find something you like.
 
Thanks for the replies..I am bound and determined to make this year the best year of my life.. and will get the book finished and off to the presses as they say .. although now its send it off on a memory card or upload it to the site. but will keep you guys posted on the book for sure.. :) super big HAPPY NEW YEAR hugs to all :)
 
A few years ago a nephew of mine blacked out, fell, broke his neck, and now has paralysis.

My health is still decent. The old saying goes that you reap what you sew. So plant a lot and then plant some more. Keep a wary eye out for weeds.
 
backhoeboogie":1mz9jctc said:
A few years ago a nephew of mine blacked out, fell, broke his neck, and now has paralysis.

My health is still decent. The old saying goes that you reap what you sew. So plant a lot and then plant some more. Keep a wary eye out for weeds.
Thanks for the reply..super big hugs and I am working on the reaping and sowing part :)
 

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