X's I just shake my head.

JHH

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Two yrs ago I got divorced. Wife had been cheating on me. I worked all the time. Anyway I have moved on and have a new life and apparently she and her new boyfriend don't like it. My house had been broke into, my mailbox destroyed, electric fence cut several times and cars gone through. She is taking me back to court for more child support to.

I just pick up and move on. Not really what I want to do but cant do what I want LOL. Have cameras up and waiting on the next round of vandalism or break in. Hopefully I can get picture or video of them or him.

Just venting I guess.
 
JHH":13dkjady said:
Two yrs ago I got divorced. Wife had been cheating on me. I worked all the time. Anyway I have moved on and have a new life and apparently she and her new boyfriend don't like it. My house had been broke into, my mailbox destroyed, electric fence cut several times and cars gone through. She is taking me back to court for more child support to.

I just pick up and move on. Not really what I want to do but cant do what I want LOL. Have cameras up and waiting on the next round of vandalism or break in. Hopefully I can get picture or video of them or him.

Just venting I guess.

Maybe you can get them served up with 5-10 years. Just make sure they get enough for it to be a felony.
 
TexasBred":nzn7zsks said:
JHH":nzn7zsks said:
Two yrs ago I got divorced. Wife had been cheating on me. I worked all the time. Anyway I have moved on and have a new life and apparently she and her new boyfriend don't like it. My house had been broke into, my mailbox destroyed, electric fence cut several times and cars gone through. She is taking me back to court for more child support to.

I just pick up and move on. Not really what I want to do but cant do what I want LOL. Have cameras up and waiting on the next round of vandalism or break in. Hopefully I can get picture or video of them or him.

Just venting I guess.

Maybe you can get them served up with 5-10 years. Just make sure they get enough for it to be a felony.

That's what I am hoping for. He is an x-con anyway. spent 12 yrs in prison. I figure I will catch him or them soon.
 
Drew Peterson needs to write a book for these kinds of problems. I can't believe they won't just leave you alone. I still can't believe the jury found old Drew guilty. JHH just make sure you keep a shotgun by your bed.
 
I was talking about this at the dinner table with my wife... she did not find that situation funny at all you got going on. She then reminded me about having to pay for a brick in my dumptruck windshield her windshield and my windows in front of my first house that my x before her busted out. I had no way to prove she did it but years later I ran into her friend who told me in fact she did it.
 
skyhightree1":31se6652 said:
I was talking about this at the dinner table with my wife... she did not find that situation funny at all you got going on. She then reminded me about having to pay for a brick in my dumptruck windshield her windshield and my windows in front of my first house that my x before her busted out. I had no way to prove she did it but years later I ran into her friend who told me in fact she did it.
Windshields are a bargain when you consider you could still have her.
 
Kingfisher":1fi53f4m said:
Two sides to every door...I pray you don't have any children.

Im guessing the child support isn't for the wife.

JHH,

I hate that for you. Be careful what you say on here. I'd hate for you to give her any unnecessary ammunition. Looks like you've been a member for a while so I assume she may know that as well.

jedstivers":1fi53f4m said:
skyhightree1":1fi53f4m said:
I was talking about this at the dinner table with my wife... she did not find that situation funny at all you got going on. She then reminded me about having to pay for a brick in my dumptruck windshield her windshield and my windows in front of my first house that my x before her busted out. I had no way to prove she did it but years later I ran into her friend who told me in fact she did it.
Windshields are a bargain when you consider you could still have her.

:nod: or have lost 1/2 your stuff while trying to get rid of the crazy chick. But sometimes that too can be a bargin.
 
I can't add anything that hasn't been said other than don't worry about venting. Venting is neccassy and CT can be a great place to do it! Good luck and as a devorced man, I hope it goes well!

Alan
 
jedstivers":qn0etb01 said:
skyhightree1":qn0etb01 said:
I was talking about this at the dinner table with my wife... she did not find that situation funny at all you got going on. She then reminded me about having to pay for a brick in my dumptruck windshield her windshield and my windows in front of my first house that my x before her busted out. I had no way to prove she did it but years later I ran into her friend who told me in fact she did it.
Windshields are a bargain when you consider you could still have her.

Jed you always have an excellent way to look at things. :clap:
 
Kingfisher":4i2kep3e said:
Two sides to every door...I pray you don't have any children.

Yes there is. They both don't work I work my a$$ off to make sure the kids have what they need . I have moved on and have a new business which is the reason they are taking me to court. She wants more money. to bad for her.

Like I said I have moved on and she isn't liking that I have and am more succesfull with out her. I don't know why I didn't get rid of her 15 yrs ago. Yes kids involved and I spend my allowed time with them. Wish it was more but they may change if I can get it changed. Thanks to all just ranting and venting.

Those who work pay for those who don't. Just wrong.
 
Hope you get whoever this is in the act... with a video tape. I've never been married, but I'm lucky, I'm on good terms with my ex's.. (probably because we were never married)
 
Divorce is an awful experience, but make the best of it. Get visitation rights by court order--in exchange for your payments. When you both get a year or so of living up to the orders things will cool. Do not speak ill of your ex in front of her children. Nobody wins that. Mothers have all the good cards in front of the judge. Try your hardest to stay out of court.
Secure your place. Cameras are good. Locks are good.
Be the adult.
 
You and the kids have been through a lot these past couple of years . If it is her ,then she sure is setting quite an example for the girls . :mad:

Stay safe and I hope you get some positive closure on this whole situation soon . :tiphat:
 

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