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<blockquote data-quote="Ryder" data-source="post: 897033" data-attributes="member: 663"><p>I, we, are not there and don't know the people nor the culture. Reading about it is not the same as 'knowing' it.</p><p></p><p>I hate to say this, but to just let it slide just empowers a bully. He knows he has found a victim to bully and build his ego if and whenever he wants to beat his chest.</p><p>But if there is any type of confrontation it should be at a time and place of your husband's choosing.</p><p>If at all possible, always have an edge.</p><p></p><p>If I may ask, what was the nature of the assault you mentioned? Was your husband injured?</p><p></p><p>I have been exposed to and involved in more of these things than I care to remember. Very unpleasent and can really wear on your nerves.</p><p>The main thing is to not let them 'get to you'.</p><p>If they get to you or if you let your anger and resentment build up, then you will be afraid.</p><p>Look at them as a lower life form and yourself as a superior person. If you can do this without emotion and without resentment, then the monkey is on their back, not yours.</p><p>Understand?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ryder, post: 897033, member: 663"] I, we, are not there and don't know the people nor the culture. Reading about it is not the same as 'knowing' it. I hate to say this, but to just let it slide just empowers a bully. He knows he has found a victim to bully and build his ego if and whenever he wants to beat his chest. But if there is any type of confrontation it should be at a time and place of your husband's choosing. If at all possible, always have an edge. If I may ask, what was the nature of the assault you mentioned? Was your husband injured? I have been exposed to and involved in more of these things than I care to remember. Very unpleasent and can really wear on your nerves. The main thing is to not let them 'get to you'. If they get to you or if you let your anger and resentment build up, then you will be afraid. Look at them as a lower life form and yourself as a superior person. If you can do this without emotion and without resentment, then the monkey is on their back, not yours. Understand? [/QUOTE]
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