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<blockquote data-quote="1848" data-source="post: 460692" data-attributes="member: 1303"><p>Quoting Frankie:</p><p></p><p>Per my example? :roll: You cannot, or will not ever be able to prevent or protect your children from harm no matter how hard you try. Parents and other siblings are not perfect and all seeing. That is how species learn.....some just have better instincts then others. Maybe you need other examples. It's not always......."black".....and white. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite8" alt=":D" title="Big grin :D" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":D" /> </p><p></p><p>What if that child you talked about was to run for the street when you turned your gaze or became distracted. Do you let it run out and learn it's lesson? Or do you run it down and spank it so it associates that decision as a bad behavior or act? That is protecting your child...harsh as it may seem. In your own words, "It <em>should</em> not be an issue", but it inevitably will be. What if the child reached for the flame or red coloring on the burner of the stove.....the pot is not an issue now, are you going to put a child gate on the kitchen? </p><p></p><p>Children are like horses..they will find a way to hurt themselves. You can try to child proof your home and stay vigilant on the watch, but they will find a way. I can chase them all day with my hands behind them ready to wisk them away "in case they fall or place themselves in harms way", or I can reenforce the "dont's" which could get them hurt and get on with it. Counseling is not an option...... :lol:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1848, post: 460692, member: 1303"] Quoting Frankie: Per my example? :roll: You cannot, or will not ever be able to prevent or protect your children from harm no matter how hard you try. Parents and other siblings are not perfect and all seeing. That is how species learn.....some just have better instincts then others. Maybe you need other examples. It's not always......."black".....and white. :D What if that child you talked about was to run for the street when you turned your gaze or became distracted. Do you let it run out and learn it's lesson? Or do you run it down and spank it so it associates that decision as a bad behavior or act? That is protecting your child...harsh as it may seem. In your own words, "It [i]should[/i] not be an issue", but it inevitably will be. What if the child reached for the flame or red coloring on the burner of the stove.....the pot is not an issue now, are you going to put a child gate on the kitchen? Children are like horses..they will find a way to hurt themselves. You can try to child proof your home and stay vigilant on the watch, but they will find a way. I can chase them all day with my hands behind them ready to wisk them away "in case they fall or place themselves in harms way", or I can reenforce the "dont's" which could get them hurt and get on with it. Counseling is not an option...... :lol: [/QUOTE]
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