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<blockquote data-quote="OwnedByTheCow" data-source="post: 1205472" data-attributes="member: 22477"><p>Ok so i'm not sure if I need advice or someone else's opinion but i've had my horse for over a year now and seeing how he is my first and my only horse i would be comfortable saying that i know him like the back of my hand, so to speak. He is close to a saint, he has saved my stupid @$$ from almost everything I would even trust him enough to say he is a therapy horse. So my point is that my sister's husband is controlling especially with his children and he does not like them even touching my horse he gets all "do this" and "do that" and "don't pat him like" and he is so untrusting of my knowledge for my animals its gone from okay to in hate having them over because i have to sit there and listen to him go on and on about "don't pat him he's nervous" 'don't get too close" when my horse could care less. When my brother in-law is not there they can will walk up to him pull his ears and practically beat him up. I rode him last time they were over and my brother in-law "had" to stand in between me and my horse and his 10 year old son and practically coach his son on don't walk around him to fast, don't do this and don't get to close. it offends me because i would really love to allow my niece and nephew to do everything they can not really do in the city that they live in. but it really offends me because I feel like my brother in-law whom i have known since birth can not trust my instincts and my knowledge on my horse and they are at our house almost every weekend so i have to postpone my entire riding schedule because i can not ride when my brother in-law is around. i would really like to fix this problem so i don't have to keep being pushed around but I don't know what to say cause i don't think he will really ever listen to me, he has always believed that he is "higher" than everyone else and that he knows everything about everything so that makes it really hard to talk to him. What do i say? i don't want to be mean but i know i have to get my point across. Thoughts?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="OwnedByTheCow, post: 1205472, member: 22477"] Ok so i'm not sure if I need advice or someone else's opinion but i've had my horse for over a year now and seeing how he is my first and my only horse i would be comfortable saying that i know him like the back of my hand, so to speak. He is close to a saint, he has saved my stupid @$$ from almost everything I would even trust him enough to say he is a therapy horse. So my point is that my sister's husband is controlling especially with his children and he does not like them even touching my horse he gets all "do this" and "do that" and "don't pat him like" and he is so untrusting of my knowledge for my animals its gone from okay to in hate having them over because i have to sit there and listen to him go on and on about "don't pat him he's nervous" 'don't get too close" when my horse could care less. When my brother in-law is not there they can will walk up to him pull his ears and practically beat him up. I rode him last time they were over and my brother in-law "had" to stand in between me and my horse and his 10 year old son and practically coach his son on don't walk around him to fast, don't do this and don't get to close. it offends me because i would really love to allow my niece and nephew to do everything they can not really do in the city that they live in. but it really offends me because I feel like my brother in-law whom i have known since birth can not trust my instincts and my knowledge on my horse and they are at our house almost every weekend so i have to postpone my entire riding schedule because i can not ride when my brother in-law is around. i would really like to fix this problem so i don't have to keep being pushed around but I don't know what to say cause i don't think he will really ever listen to me, he has always believed that he is "higher" than everyone else and that he knows everything about everything so that makes it really hard to talk to him. What do i say? i don't want to be mean but i know i have to get my point across. Thoughts? [/QUOTE]
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