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<blockquote data-quote="rockridgecattle" data-source="post: 674260" data-attributes="member: 6198"><p>Lammie, speaking as someone who is on the outs with her mother, and whose mother is dying, tell them when he passes. I know these words you speak are because you are hurt, but in the end they are family and they need to know. They need closure as well. I know they have done dumb things, hurtful things to both your parents and you. That does not excuse them. But not telling them is really bad, and I know you are not that kind of person. If you tell them, it leaves the ball in their court, and relieves you of the guilt and burden, and the anger you will feel when and after you have buried your parents. They will be accountable for their actions one day by someone...if not, really, it will come back to bite them in the butt...real good</p><p>Death seems to put things into perspective when it happens.</p><p>On a note, this was not my vent, my mother's relationship. It is a choice she has made. I have tried, and continue to try but not much i can do...</p><p>Siblings was my rant, the one sided of the relationship, how i live so far, and make a effort to see them, call them, and they have no $ to come to see me andd our farm, and can go and do things and spend like it is going out of style and yet have no money to come here. Petty in the grand scheme of things and i was really tired.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rockridgecattle, post: 674260, member: 6198"] Lammie, speaking as someone who is on the outs with her mother, and whose mother is dying, tell them when he passes. I know these words you speak are because you are hurt, but in the end they are family and they need to know. They need closure as well. I know they have done dumb things, hurtful things to both your parents and you. That does not excuse them. But not telling them is really bad, and I know you are not that kind of person. If you tell them, it leaves the ball in their court, and relieves you of the guilt and burden, and the anger you will feel when and after you have buried your parents. They will be accountable for their actions one day by someone...if not, really, it will come back to bite them in the butt...real good Death seems to put things into perspective when it happens. On a note, this was not my vent, my mother's relationship. It is a choice she has made. I have tried, and continue to try but not much i can do... Siblings was my rant, the one sided of the relationship, how i live so far, and make a effort to see them, call them, and they have no $ to come to see me andd our farm, and can go and do things and spend like it is going out of style and yet have no money to come here. Petty in the grand scheme of things and i was really tired. [/QUOTE]
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