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<blockquote data-quote="TCRanch" data-source="post: 1670987" data-attributes="member: 24027"><p>The point I was trying to make: communication is key in any relationship. And understanding. And hard work when times are tough. And sometimes taking one for the team, knowing she's got your back when the roles are reversed. I went through it, he dealt with it. You have no idea the struggles we have endured with his health issues; he's going through it, I'm dealing. Sometimes, not very well. And that's okay, it's normal. </p><p></p><p>Maybe not just offer, but suggest going with her to the next appointment? I always go - and I take notes. Literally, I bring a notepad and subsequently learn a lot. </p><p></p><p>Plan B: Fly low. Take care of yourself. Maybe she would benefit from anti depressants, but that's up to her doctors. Hopefully, it's nothing worse than a brutal, life transition. Keep the faith that this too, shall pass. And know you have a CT family that may not fully understand the extent or depth or the pain/situation, but will continue to try to help. Or at least, act as a good sounding board.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TCRanch, post: 1670987, member: 24027"] The point I was trying to make: communication is key in any relationship. And understanding. And hard work when times are tough. And sometimes taking one for the team, knowing she's got your back when the roles are reversed. I went through it, he dealt with it. You have no idea the struggles we have endured with his health issues; he's going through it, I'm dealing. Sometimes, not very well. And that's okay, it's normal. Maybe not just offer, but suggest going with her to the next appointment? I always go - and I take notes. Literally, I bring a notepad and subsequently learn a lot. Plan B: Fly low. Take care of yourself. Maybe she would benefit from anti depressants, but that's up to her doctors. Hopefully, it's nothing worse than a brutal, life transition. Keep the faith that this too, shall pass. And know you have a CT family that may not fully understand the extent or depth or the pain/situation, but will continue to try to help. Or at least, act as a good sounding board. [/QUOTE]
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