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<blockquote data-quote="Lammie" data-source="post: 561230" data-attributes="member: 3306"><p>When you first put her in, was she really confused and angry? My parents are confused and angry, but at the same time, they are clever in a way, as they know our strengths and weaknesses and try to exploit them. They got good at Divide and Conquer for a while, until we all started talking about our visits and experiences to one another. I have a brother and a sister. My brother was a real help when they were home, mowing the grass, fixing things and coming up there when called. I took care of appointments and errands. My sister is a nurse, so the medical stuff was up to her. I thought we had all the bases covered but it was not enough. </p><p></p><p>I just want them to try and like being there. I know that won't happen as long as they are in separate rooms, but that will be fixed this week. They had to make sure they weren't going to hurt one another. That, and Mom has been giving Dad Nitro pills for every little thing, and the staff have confiscated them from here twice now. (Where is she getting them????)</p><p></p><p>Should I continue to visit if they are going to just get agitated or should I give it a little time. I wasn't planning to go back until the 24th, Mom's birthday. I gotta tell you, it's hard to go there and see them get all undone and undignified in front of everyone. I know they need visitors, but I don't want to upset them. I don't want to feel sorry for myself because they are the ones going through this change. I get to go back to my home at the end of the day.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lammie, post: 561230, member: 3306"] When you first put her in, was she really confused and angry? My parents are confused and angry, but at the same time, they are clever in a way, as they know our strengths and weaknesses and try to exploit them. They got good at Divide and Conquer for a while, until we all started talking about our visits and experiences to one another. I have a brother and a sister. My brother was a real help when they were home, mowing the grass, fixing things and coming up there when called. I took care of appointments and errands. My sister is a nurse, so the medical stuff was up to her. I thought we had all the bases covered but it was not enough. I just want them to try and like being there. I know that won't happen as long as they are in separate rooms, but that will be fixed this week. They had to make sure they weren't going to hurt one another. That, and Mom has been giving Dad Nitro pills for every little thing, and the staff have confiscated them from here twice now. (Where is she getting them????) Should I continue to visit if they are going to just get agitated or should I give it a little time. I wasn't planning to go back until the 24th, Mom's birthday. I gotta tell you, it's hard to go there and see them get all undone and undignified in front of everyone. I know they need visitors, but I don't want to upset them. I don't want to feel sorry for myself because they are the ones going through this change. I get to go back to my home at the end of the day. [/QUOTE]
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