Hey neighbor, been there done that. I was nice and polite about my deal. Had 2 going at the same time. The one guy was a horse deal. Sheriff came in and "rescued" them. Id send a load when I got a check. He was one load behinde all the time. Then a check bounced. That jumped it to 3. He finally paid up. The other guy had some sheep. I was cool, polite, and paitent. Sent it in Nov. Got about 1/2 in end of Feb when I "poped in" for a visit. Sent bills with interest at 24%. Called, certified mail, etc. Finnally mid July I sent him a certifed letter saying pay up or I was going to court. He didn't have the money and so he never fought it. Garnished his wages till I got it back. PITA, but got it done. Hope its not Howard County. The clerk there is annoying!
Like others have said. Make a visit. Be cool and calm. If he can't pay, and he is trying to smooth things over with you, have a bill of sale or something that you can get him to sign. Then you have proof that he owes you and also something other than hear say for going to court as well as something to take to your banker. Was the trucking hired?
If ya need help, give me a call...youd look like a better bouncer than I would though! LOL