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<blockquote data-quote="farmerjan" data-source="post: 1641511" data-attributes="member: 25884"><p>Echoing everyone else's sentiments that it is good to hear from you again. I also think of you often, and wonder if you still had the cattle. Nothing will ever be the same but maybe you can find some small pleasures in life again. </p><p>I am sure that it is sometimes that people don't know what to say or if to say anything. So many try to refrain from talking about a lost loved one, for fear it will start a painful reaction, and so don't say anything. I am as guilty of it as anyone, and I have found myself bluntly asking if the person, that is suffering the grief , wants to talk about the loved one or would rather not. Especially if I knew that person. I find myself wanting to talk a little, to remember the good things, the funny things, and even some of the sadder things that made that person unique. Often it seems to open up the communication with a friend that doesn't know what to say. </p><p>Sometimes you have to be the one to reach out, even if really, you shouldn't have to be the one to reach out. </p><p></p><p>I am very glad you reached out here to all of us , and let us know that you are still surviving, and trying to get on with life. I am glad that his friends have stayed in touch with you, and that is a tribute to you that as his parents, he thought that much of you to have you continue to be a part of his adult life too. As proud as you were of him, it shows that he was proud to have you as his parents, because his friends were also your friends/surrogate "kids". </p><p></p><p>I am real sorry that this insane covid stuff has prevented you from paying tribute to him at this time. But you will do it in the future, when it is the right time to do so. </p><p></p><p>Please check in and keep us up on things. We all care about you and I know I often look to see if you have checked up on things. Hugs and thoughts to both you and your husband.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="farmerjan, post: 1641511, member: 25884"] Echoing everyone else's sentiments that it is good to hear from you again. I also think of you often, and wonder if you still had the cattle. Nothing will ever be the same but maybe you can find some small pleasures in life again. I am sure that it is sometimes that people don't know what to say or if to say anything. So many try to refrain from talking about a lost loved one, for fear it will start a painful reaction, and so don't say anything. I am as guilty of it as anyone, and I have found myself bluntly asking if the person, that is suffering the grief , wants to talk about the loved one or would rather not. Especially if I knew that person. I find myself wanting to talk a little, to remember the good things, the funny things, and even some of the sadder things that made that person unique. Often it seems to open up the communication with a friend that doesn't know what to say. Sometimes you have to be the one to reach out, even if really, you shouldn't have to be the one to reach out. I am very glad you reached out here to all of us , and let us know that you are still surviving, and trying to get on with life. I am glad that his friends have stayed in touch with you, and that is a tribute to you that as his parents, he thought that much of you to have you continue to be a part of his adult life too. As proud as you were of him, it shows that he was proud to have you as his parents, because his friends were also your friends/surrogate "kids". I am real sorry that this insane covid stuff has prevented you from paying tribute to him at this time. But you will do it in the future, when it is the right time to do so. Please check in and keep us up on things. We all care about you and I know I often look to see if you have checked up on things. Hugs and thoughts to both you and your husband. [/QUOTE]
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