I talked to him last night but didn't cover the driving thing. He's somehow managed not to have Medicare part B. I don't know when that stopped and neither does he. At least, I think it stopped. I went with them to sign up for the prescription thing last year and they were on Secure Horizons. Now he says they aren't. I am going to meet them at the insurance agent's to get this thing straightened out. Meanwhile, my sister, who acted like she was going to "take charge" with them, has bowed out. She called me last night and in no uncertain terms, bawled me out bigtime and handed the entire issue to me. I am trying to sell my house right now, and I have a full house, owing to my sons and possibly my step-son moving in. I guess I am going to either have to put them in a nursing home or get a big enough place to have them come stay with me. In the meanwhile, though, I will just have to sit down with them and offer to look at their financials and see what's going on.
I hope that when I am old, and I say this no w, at 43, that I am able to have made a plan for this time in my life so that my kids won't have to go through this. I hope I will know when to throw in the towel. I know, though, that when I',m old, I will be just as bad or worse.
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