Flamer Personality Disorder

Horse Guy

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"Invariably a FPD flamer will start a flamewar. First the flamer attacks another subscriber unexpectedly. It happens because the flamer felt insulted (exquisite sensitivity to insults), but usually this insult was entirely in his/her own mind. But the flamer never considers that perhaps he made a mistake while interpreting the insult (no self-doubt), and he also sees a NEED to answer every insult with insults (vengeful, narcissistic.)


Having created a fight while blaming others for starting it, the flamer then lays into his victim, (amoral, combative), while seeing his own actions as a righteous battle against an evil enemy (projection.) If the victim seems hurt, the flamer will be disgusted by such weakness (amoral.) But if the victim responds in kind, the flamer will immediately complain bitterly about this, while steadfastly denying that the type of attacks he so hates are identical to the ones he's using himself (hypocrisy, self-serving bias.) If other subscribers object, the flamer ignores them as beneath contempt (egotistical), or because he KNOWS they must be wrong without even listening to their reasoning (no self-doubt.) Or perhaps he ignores them because he is certain that they have hidden agendas, and their complaints could only be false constructs meant to mislead. (denial/projection.)

The FPD flamer typically ignores a moderator and refuses to alter his behavior, and can only be stopped by ejection from the forum. Sometimes flamers attack the moderator in order to get ejected (and therefore feel smug righteousness at being "censored" or "martyred.") A flamer will occasionally be shocked by being banned from a forum, and actually reconsider his behavior. But this is rare. Usually they're too far gone for this to penetrate their immense psychological defenses. They will refuse all responsibility for the problem (deceit, denial), blame it on the moderator or on the group for conspiring against them in private (paranoia), and totally refuse to look at their own mistakes in an honest light (denial, deceit, self-blind.) "
http://amasci.com/weird/flamer.html


Alice, Don't you just LOVE encountering a full-blown FPD-type flamer?
 
HAY... What the heck are you doing picking on Alice. She hasn't done anything wrong. Man the nerve of some people... :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Z
 
Sometimes its too many neighbors cows in the pasture.

Sometimes its too many hogs digging holes in the best pastures.

Sometimes its too many flats on the tractor from #$%!@ mesquite trees.

If we were all just alike, this forum would be boring and we couldn't learn anything from one another.
 
MillIronQH":3nd57k1j said:
HAY... What the heck are you doing picking on Alice. She hasn't done anything wrong. Man the nerve of some people... :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Z

:lol: :P :lol: :P :lol: :P
 
backhoeboogie":1mdnxey5 said:
Sometimes its too many neighbors cows in the pasture.

Sometimes its too many hogs digging holes in the best pastures.

Sometimes its too many flats on the tractor from #$%!@ mesquite trees.

If we were all just alike, this forum would be boring and we couldn't learn anything from one another.

Very true, BHB... ;-)

Alice
 
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