Just Curious
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We had a run in with one of our six children, not wanting to get with the program academically...
Now we never asked any of them to be an all "A" student, but "D's" and "F's" were totally unacceptable..
This one particular child could care less about school and decided that what mom and dad wanted or what punishment mom and dad would do was not significant either...
So we decided rather than butt heads with her... We implemented the "Back to Basics" approach... In that mom and dad would provide here with her basic needs...
One winter she was getting a bit cold and decided that she need a new coat... (Which was right and we were surprised that she lasted as long as she had without one here in Montana)
So I told her to get in the truck and we would go get her one... We headed into town and stopped at the first "Thrift Store"... She asked what we were doing there and I said, "Well you need a coat!"...
"But Dad, this is a thrift store" she said. And there's this really pretty red coat at one of the "Designer Stores"... It has a red hood with a fur trim", she added
"Well I am sure that must be a really nice coat, but remember without a good education you might not be able to afford those kind of things.. And remember mom and I are only concerned that you are warm... Not how you would look in that nice red coat"
"But if you want to pay the difference, we will find out what a good coat cost here the the second hand store and we'll put in that much toward that red coat that you want...
And that's what happened...
I love Carhartt...
What kind of real Designer Clothing do you have in your areas....
Now we never asked any of them to be an all "A" student, but "D's" and "F's" were totally unacceptable..
This one particular child could care less about school and decided that what mom and dad wanted or what punishment mom and dad would do was not significant either...
So we decided rather than butt heads with her... We implemented the "Back to Basics" approach... In that mom and dad would provide here with her basic needs...
One winter she was getting a bit cold and decided that she need a new coat... (Which was right and we were surprised that she lasted as long as she had without one here in Montana)
So I told her to get in the truck and we would go get her one... We headed into town and stopped at the first "Thrift Store"... She asked what we were doing there and I said, "Well you need a coat!"...
"But Dad, this is a thrift store" she said. And there's this really pretty red coat at one of the "Designer Stores"... It has a red hood with a fur trim", she added
"Well I am sure that must be a really nice coat, but remember without a good education you might not be able to afford those kind of things.. And remember mom and I are only concerned that you are warm... Not how you would look in that nice red coat"
"But if you want to pay the difference, we will find out what a good coat cost here the the second hand store and we'll put in that much toward that red coat that you want...
And that's what happened...
I love Carhartt...
What kind of real Designer Clothing do you have in your areas....