Daphne's gone

TexasJerseyMilker

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With a 15 year old cow it's always expected but you don't know when. I kind of knew 3 days ago when I sang to her with the Viking cattle call and she did not come.


She was standing at the opposite end of the field under the trees. I walked her in and kept her in the yard because she likes to stay there and look in the windows. But she would not eat her feed or hay, only grazed listlessly on green grass. I took her into the vineyard where the grass has never been grazed and held her lead rope. I picked grass for her and she took it from my hands.

The second day there was no improvement. But she still would lick me, it's her way of showing affection. The first day I ever saw Daphne was at a place in east Texas where a man raised bottle heifers for sale. I leaned on the fence looking over the heifers, felt something licking my leg and looked down. It was Daphne so I took her home.

Daphne was my first dairy cow and she raised 8 calves in her life. They were half Angus and were sold. Then, as you know, I asked God for a pure blood Jersey heifer from her. And if she did not settle with AI or if she died having it I told the Lord thy will be done and I accept it. Being an old fat cow and having no heat periods for a couple of years she conceived and delivered her miracle calf. Willow is 8 months old now and looks a lot like her mother.

There are no vets that see cattle here. That Daphne did not fill her rumen or poop much concerned me. I listened to her gut sounds with my stethoscope . There were contractions, that's how the rumen mixes it's contents, but very hypoactive. There should be about 3 a minute but there was only one. My dairy friends gave me probiotic capsules you give with a balling gun. I gave her 2 and also a vitamin B shot. She had been lying down when we did this and she did not get up. I thought, well, now we have a down cow which is usually the beginning of the end. But two hours later I sang the Viking cattle call to her and she got up. She walked over to the tree she likes to stand under. I picked her a 5 gallon bucket of fresh grass and sprinkled a little rolled corn on it to attract her. She nosed at it. It was getting dark so I went in the house and cooked dinner and we watched the rest of a movie. When I went out with a flashlight to check on her she was lying dead. I remembered the day when I first met Daphne and even on the last day of her life she had licked me. Now I will learn to let go and love her with an open hand, like God loves.
 
Im sorry to hear that. I know special ones like her are part of the family. It’s good you got to be with her til the end of the road. She was blessed to have the life you gave her.
 
Gawd I'm such a sissy. Crying before I made it to the end of your post.

I lost Rocket this year. I raised her from a 400lb heifer calf. My first ever cow. When I got her she wasn't weaned and took off like a Rocket. I chased her 5 miles with my old purple vw til we could get her roped and loaded in a friend's truck. My truck sat in the pasture with a broken ignition.
She went thru countless fences. Thru wheat fields. Corn fields. Even went swimming a time or two.
After I got her weaned she never left home again, until I had to give her a new home (pasture)
She gave me 11 calves. I kept her first 2 heifers. Rowdy and Rebel. Sadly, I sold them when I had to change homes myself.
I gave thought to keeping Rockets heifer from this year, but after all we've been thru I thought it best to move on.

Rockets skull will be hanging in my house before long.


I hope Daphne's heifer is all u hoped for and she gives u at least as many years too!
 
That is sad to hear. When you know the end is near it is a relief when things are over quickly and you do not have to make any decision.

Yes. We have an agreement with our rancher friends across the road. Actually, one of Daphnes half angus daughters lives there. He said when the time comes when Daphne is suffering and down and can't get up, he would come over and shoot her. Then drag her body away with his tractor to his boneyard. It's a blessing he did not have to shoot her. I did not have to hear that gunshot ring out.
 
Sorry to hear. But so very thankful that you did manage to get a "keeper" heifer out of her.
Lost my jersey nurse cow 6 weeks ago, didn't have her but a year or so, and she was older than I realized.. still hard enough. Have her 1/2 angus heifer calf though. I have buried 2, my first guernsey that was pushing 15 yrs old, that I was only her 2nd owner, and my first beef x calf that I raised on a bottle to become the foundation of my beef cow herd at 15 yrs old also... I am very thankful for both and shed a few tears over both also.
 
The rancher across the road uses Daphne's body to shoot coyotes over. I noticed several newly dead coyotes hanging on the fence. The turkey buzzards here migrate out of this country in the winter but my friends the local ravens are very well fed. Mostly they just sit around and sun themselves.

Willow, Daphne's miracle calf is 9 months old now. She does not look like a calf anymore, she looks more like a small cow. I taped her at 500lbs. She has Daphne's classic head and face and the body on her is amazing, Pins and hooks level, good set of legs, spring of rib, correct and a lot of stretch. I plan on showing her next summer in the county fair.

Willow does not have her mother's gentle sweet and loving disposition though, she is more spicy. I think because she was bottle raised by me and also dominates the younger calf she developed an inflated idea of herself. I have taught her to not crowd me when I bring feed, but to stand back until I say. Both calves are tied when I feed them so she cannot eat the smaller steer's feed. She sees me coming with the bucket and shoots backward to the end of the rope until I say OK. But I can approach her and give scratches.
 
That’s sad am sorry for your loss. Seems like the loss of a faithful companion no matter what type of animal that was a pet is hard. I say that because an animal whether it be a dog, cat or in your case a cow when they show you their love for you. There’s no doubt they are sincere and truly care for you. You’re their whole world and are the most important thing in the world to them.

But like the guy in the movie Jeremiah Johnson, the old mountain man the trapper who also played grandpa Walton on the show the Waltons. Told Jeremiah when he was asked if he had ever been married. The old trapper told Jeremiah that he had never found any traces to of love and that he had married one time and she was the meanest bitch that had ever balled for beads ! 😁 I had a few of them myself over the years. But I never had a pet of any kind that didn’t appreciate every little act of kindness that I gave it from a simple pat on the head to an occasional bone, treat or something of the sort. Sad thing about it most pets are more neglected than the people you think you can trust.
 
I'm sorry you have not found the once in a lifetime person yet. It seems that a lot of people, especially younger people, get married because of physical attraction. When this fades somewhat, and it does, they get divorced. Also, as time goes on people can change and become incompatible. I have been fortunate to know one horse of a lifetime she lived for 40 years, one dog of a lifetime and she's the German Shepherd we have now, one cow of a lifetime and one man of a lifetime. That man I met in 1980 riding that once in a lifetime mare in his hayfield. I was married to someone else at that time but he and I became friends and I was friends with his family. He had never been married because he never meet the right one. I got divorced because my husband changed and not for the better. Fortunately we didn't have any children.

Then decades of being happily single. Then I was very, very injured in 2010 and ended up in the ICU where I used to work. I was there for weeks. But they would not discharge me because I was basically helpless and there was no one to take care of me. So my cowboy friend who lived alone by then, he told them he would take care of me. Turned out he had also been taking care of all my livestock. I got well and we stayed together. Our idea of dates was going to bull auctions and horse training seminars. Then he asked me to marry him. Do you know how rare that is? A 68 year old never married cowboy? They usually shy away from the double harness.

If you are still yearn for that once in a lifetime lady maybe you could join a church. People that go to church are usually tying to be kind, loving and descent people. And not because you are trolling for a wife, but because you are also focusing on being a kind and loving person.

Daphne's heifer is growing into a beauty. It will be interesting to see what kind of a show cow she will grow into. I have my dairy friends who show and they are going to show a heifer I raised next year (not out of Daphne, out of Honeydew). They will teach me to lead and show and body clip her. Here's a tip. I notice in the showmanship class and other class they have some kind of a death grip on the cows and heifers halters up by their noses. It turns out they are actually pinching up the loose skin of the cows cheeks so the neckline on the side away from the judge will appear cleaner and more dairy. Ha haha, that's what I need, a permanent pinching.
 
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All her life Daphne's way of showing affection was to lick me. Oddly enough, her heifer Willow has recently started licking me. She comes up, stands there a while then she does this gentle licking of my clothing.
 

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