@chaded, worry doesn't accomplish anything except stress you out. So yes, any worry is too much. Refocus worry into concern, and then act on concern. Much more productive and beneficial.
Animals have varying tolerance levels to the cyanide that is present in cherry trees/parts of. Several years ago there were a lot of unexplained horse deaths and abortions occurring in pastures occurring in Kentucky. That same year, there was a proliferation of tent caterpillars. The connection? The tent caterpillars were feeding on cherry trees in horse pastures and the horses were consuming grasses under the cherry trees where the caterpillars were and in the process were consuming caterpillars, caterpillar poop, shed caterpillar skins....all of which were products from the cherry trees. The problem was so bad until the cause was identified that horse owners were actually moving their horses out of state to save the lives of the horses as the cause was unknown.
The wilted leaves are much more palatable than fully intact leaves. The level of cyanide in either is about equal. Palatability increases leads to higher intake levels, thus more cyanide intake because of more volume intake, which translates into higher sickness/death rates.
It takes a quantity of cyanide to have an effect on an animal. The more cyanide, the bigger the effect. I suppose once a lethal amount is reached, the effect no longer increases (Sorry for those that don't like dark humor). A certain number of leaves can usually be, and typically are, ingested before any effects will occur or be noticed. Basically, a harmless level. That number is quite variable based on the animal and concentration of cyanide in the leaf.
I know I said levels of cyanide are about equal in wilted vs live leaves. They are. But, what IS variable is the amount of cyanide per leaf between trees and/or between time of year and growth stage of the tree. So, a set quantity of cherry tree leaves may be harmless in one instance, but deadly in another instance, and it has little/nothing to do if the leaves are wilted or not.