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<blockquote data-quote="Redgully" data-source="post: 1612365" data-attributes="member: 33533"><p>I've seen depression in different ways. My uncle uses "depression" to twist people around him to get what he wants. For my ex brother in law it was his excuse for multiple affairs. Then on the otherside my brothers best friend hung himself out of the blue when 23 and only told of his depression in some letters he left. No one had a clue. But closer to home my wife had bad post natal depression after our second child. The day after having her i could tell something wasn't right and it just got worse for the next six months. One day i decided she needed some help so looked up some phone numbers. That same day she rang me really nervous and asked me if i think she could have post natal. I said definitely and told her i was looking for help, she burst out crying but you know what, from that moment she got better and better. I think it just helped her understand there was a reason why she was feeling the way she was. Dr wanted her on tablets but she refused. I got her to see psychologist but we both felt unimpressed by her. She was told she had to put the kids in care and focus on herself, go out on her own once a week and just enjoy herself. Basically become all about yourself. But in the end just knowing what was causing her to feel the way she was is all she needed to make the changes needed to work her way out of it. I have never had depression in my life so a bit hard for me to understand but i do know it is a very complicated issue ranging from people who are selfish right over to people who give everything they have and feel they aren't giving enough. Then there is conditions and causes no one understands. Best look out for each other and get the proper help in each individual case even if it means medication or a punch in the nose.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Redgully, post: 1612365, member: 33533"] I've seen depression in different ways. My uncle uses "depression" to twist people around him to get what he wants. For my ex brother in law it was his excuse for multiple affairs. Then on the otherside my brothers best friend hung himself out of the blue when 23 and only told of his depression in some letters he left. No one had a clue. But closer to home my wife had bad post natal depression after our second child. The day after having her i could tell something wasn't right and it just got worse for the next six months. One day i decided she needed some help so looked up some phone numbers. That same day she rang me really nervous and asked me if i think she could have post natal. I said definitely and told her i was looking for help, she burst out crying but you know what, from that moment she got better and better. I think it just helped her understand there was a reason why she was feeling the way she was. Dr wanted her on tablets but she refused. I got her to see psychologist but we both felt unimpressed by her. She was told she had to put the kids in care and focus on herself, go out on her own once a week and just enjoy herself. Basically become all about yourself. But in the end just knowing what was causing her to feel the way she was is all she needed to make the changes needed to work her way out of it. I have never had depression in my life so a bit hard for me to understand but i do know it is a very complicated issue ranging from people who are selfish right over to people who give everything they have and feel they aren't giving enough. Then there is conditions and causes no one understands. Best look out for each other and get the proper help in each individual case even if it means medication or a punch in the nose. [/QUOTE]
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