preston, i have put uncounted numbers of calves on cows and i have never heard of putting milk on the calf-----thanks for that thought. i have skinned the dead calf, used vanilla, all sorts of things---but that is a new idea for me.
the way that i have found most successful after all the fighting of getting a calf on a cow is to simply buy a 4-6 week old calf straight off an old beef cow that they split at the barn. put the cow and that calf in one compartment of my stock trailer, you dont have to get in there with them. if you do that in the afternoon, and also have your stock dog go in close to them and be around them, not in the compartment, then usually by morning she will have taken the calf. the dog makes her want to protect the calf and the calf is old enough that it will force her to let it suck.
i used to get 3 day old calves and work myself to death each time, but since i started getting the 4-6 week old calves i have never had a cow that didnt take the calf within 3 days and almost always by the first morning after spending the night together, they take them. i also foudn that the 4-6 week old calves will usually cost the same or less than the 3-5 day old ones because people either want bucket calves or babies to put on cows---the 4-6 week old ones are in between