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<blockquote data-quote="High Cotton" data-source="post: 849038" data-attributes="member: 14928"><p>JHH,</p><p>I feel your pain. I'm been through what you going through minus the kids. We weren't even married a year and I found some messages on Facebook that married women don't send people they work with. Called her out on it, but she denied. I had already saved the message. She said she wants to work it out. I said I'm willing to try and make things works. She said that I havent paid her much attention lately. I will admit that I had been busy between the 7-3:30, cutting yards, and working on the farm. Sheesh I was trying to pay the bills and help pay her school loans off. Things seem to be going ok. I get that uneasy feeling again so I go to looking at the phone bill. She texts this number something like 2000 times that month. That's more than she texts me. She's never had girl friends she's talked to that much. I ask her about it. She says it a girl she works with. I said ok if it's just a girl you work with you won't mind if I call and talk to her for a second. I was half way done dialing the number when she broke down. We decieded to go to conseling. It's wasn't as bad as I expected. I was expecting to be told it was all my fault and that I work to much. I didn't get railroaded. The conselor didn't play the blame game. It helped us a lot. That's been about 6 months ago. I have been doing better about making time for her. I also include her in the farm jobs if I can. My hardest hurdle to overcome was the letting it go. If ya'll decide to make it work you both have to move on. There can't be 24 questions everytime she goes some where with out you. If she wants to work it out she will tell you what she's doing because she knows you have your doubts. I will still look at the phone bill from time to time but I never mention it. This is been a long hard road for me. I feel for anyone walking the same one. I came from a broken home and was hell bent on not doing the same to my kids if and when I have them.</p><p>Randy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="High Cotton, post: 849038, member: 14928"] JHH, I feel your pain. I'm been through what you going through minus the kids. We weren't even married a year and I found some messages on Facebook that married women don't send people they work with. Called her out on it, but she denied. I had already saved the message. She said she wants to work it out. I said I'm willing to try and make things works. She said that I havent paid her much attention lately. I will admit that I had been busy between the 7-3:30, cutting yards, and working on the farm. Sheesh I was trying to pay the bills and help pay her school loans off. Things seem to be going ok. I get that uneasy feeling again so I go to looking at the phone bill. She texts this number something like 2000 times that month. That's more than she texts me. She's never had girl friends she's talked to that much. I ask her about it. She says it a girl she works with. I said ok if it's just a girl you work with you won't mind if I call and talk to her for a second. I was half way done dialing the number when she broke down. We decieded to go to conseling. It's wasn't as bad as I expected. I was expecting to be told it was all my fault and that I work to much. I didn't get railroaded. The conselor didn't play the blame game. It helped us a lot. That's been about 6 months ago. I have been doing better about making time for her. I also include her in the farm jobs if I can. My hardest hurdle to overcome was the letting it go. If ya'll decide to make it work you both have to move on. There can't be 24 questions everytime she goes some where with out you. If she wants to work it out she will tell you what she's doing because she knows you have your doubts. I will still look at the phone bill from time to time but I never mention it. This is been a long hard road for me. I feel for anyone walking the same one. I came from a broken home and was hell bent on not doing the same to my kids if and when I have them. Randy [/QUOTE]
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