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<blockquote data-quote="cow pollinater" data-source="post: 848850" data-attributes="member: 14661"><p>My wife and I got pretty close to divorce a few years ago and I was in your shoes. I figured it was probably me working to much and she was happy to tell me that everything wrong in our lives was really all my fault. She said that if I wanted her to stay I had to go to counciling to get myself fixed. We started with marriage counciling so that she could tell the shrink what all was wrong with me so I could start changing...</p><p>My marriage took a dramatic turn for the better at the exact moment in time that our counciler explained to my wife that she needed to see my wife one on one for a while because as the counciler saw it my wife wasn't capable of being happily married until she dealt with her own issues. My wife literally had a panic attack and nearly wound up in the hospital. Things are alot better now and as it turns out, I'm not Satan but I do have to remember to smile at her and tell her she's pretty every once in a while. Now she is like a new wife, back to being my girlfriend. Tough times just made us stronger. </p><p></p><p>Ask her to join you in counciling. If she won't go, go by yourself and keep records just in case it turns ugly. That way you can prove you're trying to make things better instead of a finger pointing competition.</p><p></p><p>Good luck and take care of yourself. Be true to yourself and her until she's no longer yours. If she wants to go outside of marriage, it's her sin and not yours. Don't follow her example.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="cow pollinater, post: 848850, member: 14661"] My wife and I got pretty close to divorce a few years ago and I was in your shoes. I figured it was probably me working to much and she was happy to tell me that everything wrong in our lives was really all my fault. She said that if I wanted her to stay I had to go to counciling to get myself fixed. We started with marriage counciling so that she could tell the shrink what all was wrong with me so I could start changing... My marriage took a dramatic turn for the better at the exact moment in time that our counciler explained to my wife that she needed to see my wife one on one for a while because as the counciler saw it my wife wasn't capable of being happily married until she dealt with her own issues. My wife literally had a panic attack and nearly wound up in the hospital. Things are alot better now and as it turns out, I'm not Satan but I do have to remember to smile at her and tell her she's pretty every once in a while. Now she is like a new wife, back to being my girlfriend. Tough times just made us stronger. Ask her to join you in counciling. If she won't go, go by yourself and keep records just in case it turns ugly. That way you can prove you're trying to make things better instead of a finger pointing competition. Good luck and take care of yourself. Be true to yourself and her until she's no longer yours. If she wants to go outside of marriage, it's her sin and not yours. Don't follow her example. [/QUOTE]
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