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<blockquote data-quote="Bez+" data-source="post: 666902" data-attributes="member: 6797"><p>And as I stated - you are now an adult - if old enough to marry you are old enough to face these MINOR - VERY MINOR issues head on.</p><p></p><p>Take the bull by the horns - and solve the problem - you can be a hard ass and keep her out.</p><p></p><p>You can be a negotiator and allow her some input</p><p></p><p>You can be gracious or you can be the female equivalent of a dick head.</p><p></p><p>Bottom line is you and you alone will have to live with whatever you do.</p><p></p><p>YOU are the person who makes the decisions - so you will have a friend or a foe for the next bunch of years once you are married. </p><p></p><p>For it may turn into war - trust me this does happen - and over the most minor of things families have been ruined</p><p></p><p>What is it all worth to YOU?</p><p></p><p>Some places you will take a stand - as you should - and some places you will give in - as you should.</p><p></p><p>Hope it all works out and wish you all the best - but a group of complete strangers is probably the last place I would be going for advice</p><p></p><p>Enjoy your new life - have lots of healthy children and treat them well - for you will be lonely in your old age if you do not.</p><p></p><p>Bez+</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Bez+, post: 666902, member: 6797"] And as I stated - you are now an adult - if old enough to marry you are old enough to face these MINOR - VERY MINOR issues head on. Take the bull by the horns - and solve the problem - you can be a hard ass and keep her out. You can be a negotiator and allow her some input You can be gracious or you can be the female equivalent of a dick head. Bottom line is you and you alone will have to live with whatever you do. YOU are the person who makes the decisions - so you will have a friend or a foe for the next bunch of years once you are married. For it may turn into war - trust me this does happen - and over the most minor of things families have been ruined What is it all worth to YOU? Some places you will take a stand - as you should - and some places you will give in - as you should. Hope it all works out and wish you all the best - but a group of complete strangers is probably the last place I would be going for advice Enjoy your new life - have lots of healthy children and treat them well - for you will be lonely in your old age if you do not. Bez+ [/QUOTE]
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